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To ask you to tell me how old I look?

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Cyclelover · 18/01/2020 20:32

I was insulted today and told I look much older than I am. Could I ask you to tell me how old you think? Blush

Be kind, but honest

To ask you to tell me how old I look?
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FoamingAtTheUterus · 18/01/2020 23:15

I'd say late 40s but your hair colour really ages you.

Go dark, I think it will make a massive difference.

Krazynights34 · 18/01/2020 23:16

Just don’t believe OP is 42. 52 yes and that includes for a smoker. I am 44 and no way she’s younger than me (and I’m no great shakes).
Still she’s a beautiful woman so who bloody cares?

Sparklesocks · 18/01/2020 23:17

How about me? Please be kind, I’ve run out of moisturiser, didn’t sleep well and haven’t put my make up on Grin

DarklyDreamingDexter · 18/01/2020 23:18

Filters usually knock about 10 years off, so early 60s?

Cyclelover · 18/01/2020 23:18

Thanks all, I don't mind the harsher guesses so long as they were meant well which I'm sure they were Smile

I do want and need to stop smoking, I've tried multiple times but am determined to kick the habit once end for all.

I would like to look younger, I think it's natural to want to hang on to your youth isn't it? Unfortunately i can't now get younger looking skin without having invasive surgery or injections which I really don't want.

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AmelieTaylor · 18/01/2020 23:20

Dylan it’s good you
Ousted a non filtered photo ...I’d say you’re due a telegram doin!

@Cyclelover. IMO men are fucking useless at guessing women’s ages so I wouldn't give hus comment another thought’

Quit smoking 🌷

Cycling outside is hard on your Facial
skin but outdoor exercise is good for your health and that’s more important.

Carrying extra weight kept my face looking less wrinkled and younger...until it didn’t
And it decided to become jowels instead of cheeks. Life happens!🤷🏻‍♀️

There’s nothing that would make me post a picture on here though. It’s a bear pit

DarklyDreamingDexter · 18/01/2020 23:20

Oh gosh, just noticed a post above which said 42!! Shock Sorry, but you did ask!

Dylaninthemovies1 · 18/01/2020 23:21

@Sparklesocks. About 27

Cyclelover · 18/01/2020 23:21

Homeisthecalm, 27? and you are stunning!

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Duck90 · 18/01/2020 23:21

Filters look like someone has something to hide. So I think they do age a person. If a campaign is attached that hints of brexit/daily mail even more so.

RealPill · 18/01/2020 23:22

Cycle Thank you! Just realised you'd of had to scroll through 10k pics of my DS. You're 12 years incorrect Grin

I am 39

recklessruby · 18/01/2020 23:24

I m 52 next week OP (one in the hat) so I think you re about my age?

To ask you to tell me how old I look?
To ask you to tell me how old I look?
Snoopdogsbitch · 18/01/2020 23:24

Now, OP, I'm 48 and think I look roughly my age. Comparing your photo you look older than me because of the smoker's wrinkles. Quit and slather with decent moisturiser and you can stop time (somewhat).

To ask you to tell me how old I look?
Sagradafamiliar · 18/01/2020 23:24

Cycle honestly I think it's the hair. It's just a bit dated and ageing. Easy enough to change if you do want to look more youthful.

RealPill I think you've posted before on Style and Beauty? I'd guess at mid 20s

Fightingmycorner2019 · 18/01/2020 23:24

Yeah I’d say early 50s too

echoskey · 18/01/2020 23:26

Mid to late 50s. Hard to tell with the silly filters.

Sagradafamiliar · 18/01/2020 23:26

I'm 39

And I am. Shook.

Ivalueloyaltyaboveallelse · 18/01/2020 23:26

Sorry op but i would say late 50s early 60s Blush

EmmaGrundyForPM · 18/01/2020 23:27

I think you're about 57 give or take 3 years

CassandrasCastle · 18/01/2020 23:28

This thread is unbearable, can't believe I have just read through most of it 😱 The cringe is real..

DarklyDreamingDexter · 18/01/2020 23:30

Not wishing to be rude, but could I suggest a slightly trendier hairstyle? My neighbour is 65 and has a similar hairstyle. She looks absolutely fab for 65, but if you are 42 I think you could go for something a bit funkier and maybe a softer blonde? Appreciate you can’t do much about your skin without fillers or surgery, but a great hairstyle can do wonders. I used to watch that show “10 years Younger” and a great hairstyle worked miracles on some people.

Cyclelover · 18/01/2020 23:33

Snoop, reckless and real you all look absolutely fab for your ages. I think I've depressed myself a bit! Still, I did ask.. Blush

Will take the good suggestions on board, thank you for the pointers

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Javagrey · 18/01/2020 23:35

52

Cyclelover · 18/01/2020 23:35

What is your go-to moisturiser ladies? I'll be frank, I don't often bother and when I do it's just a cheap nivea one I've had for yonks. Definitely prepared to invest in some better skincare if it's worth it

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AmICrazyorWhat2 · 18/01/2020 23:37

@Snoopdogsbitch

I agree it's all about skin care at our age (I'm 45). Moisturise, keep out of the sun and even have the occasional facial if the budget allows. I know a few people who seem to think that a tan makes them look "healthy" but it really doesn't, just ages them.

You have lovely skin and I like your hair!