Hi, can any one advise? My fiancé has been distant lately. Didn’t want sex for a couple of mornings and wasn’t affectionate on an evening for five nights. Today he said he had to work late. I suggested going in later. He declined and said he wouldn’t be home in time. In fact, adamant he wouldn’t be back in time so took his snooker cue with him in readiness as he plays snooker each Thursday night. He said he wouldn’t leave work until about 6pm ish due to meetings. I believed that. However, something niggled me with his distant behaviour. So I called his work at 5pm. The receptionist, who he manages, said he left at 3pm for the day and he would see her tomorrow. He hadn’t been in touch since 2.55pm and said nothing of popping out and hadn’t text or emailed me since 2.55pm. He knew I had a doctors appt at 4pm but he didn’t enquire so presumed he was in a meeting. Then at 5pm I made the call. I then text him and said Did you finish work at 3pm? He said he had to pop out why? I said no problem, just that I didn’t know and he has told me off before for finishing work early/starting later without saying anything to pick up an Asda food shop so we have agreed to let each other know. He then called me. He said he had to pick something up. Shouted at me down the phone that I didn’t trust him. He was very annoyed with me. Went into detail as to what he had to do and that he was now on the way to the office but that he would cancel his meetings to come home and have a chat with me. I said no have your meeting. I didn’t mention about the call. He called me back over an hour later and said what was all that about? I asked him where he was and he said he had been at work and dropped off the stuff and was driving back (his commute is 40mins). I still didn’t tell him I called his work. I was so angry and said after 2 years you have never been paranoid... why now? I said someone had called my office to say my fella wasn’t where he should be this afternoon. That’s why I felt like I did. Should I tell him I called his work and tell him what they said? Do you think he is cheating? He used to message his ex for six months behind my back and even changed her name in his phone... when caught out on this, he said he didn’t know how it had happened!?! Don’t know what to do.