Not saying that Europe shouldn’t help but we can’t be expected to shoulder all of it.
The world's top refugee hosting countries are Pakistan, Lebanon, Uganda, Turkey, Jordan and Germany. Europe isn't shouldering all of it.
Where are all the women and children? 🤔
Would you put your own kids on a rubber boat to cross the Mediterranean? Families send the man (if they can even afford to do that, human trafficking isn't safe nor cheap), who, once they receive refugee status, can have their families join them through much safer process of family reunion (which in itself isn't an easy nor quick process).