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Megan has left Harry and gone back to Canada hasn't she ? Why didn't they bring Archie back to Britain with them ?

124 replies

ToEarlyForDecorations · 11/01/2020 22:57

There's a lot of crisis talks, drama etc.

OP posts:
LoadOfOldTosh · 12/01/2020 03:33

loadof the west coast is often referred to as the wet coast and they have been in B.C., Saanich to be precise.

Apologies, @fallfallfall, I was confused by reading that MM had flown to Toronto and thought they must be staying there. Thanks for the clarification Grin

NeverDropYourMoonCup · 12/01/2020 03:36

The Queen has legal custody of all the kids. Not their parents. That means the parents have no right to decide a single thing regarding their children.

Wouldn't you stay a few thousand miles away if your FIL's mother was able to take your baby away from you if she felt like it?

fargo123 · 12/01/2020 03:57

returns to her son in Canada where she left him safe from the queen who has, in theory, custody of her grand and great grand children. Bringing Archie on multiple flights hasn't bothered either parent previously, they're safe keeping their custody of their child against any threat, no matter how small it maybe, as any good parent would.

That's my theory too. There's no way I'd place my child in a situation whereby they were basically held as a hostage to prevent me from leaving the country, with or without them, or or as a way of making me 'toe the line'.

I think the driving force behind all this is Harry, as he doesn't want his wife and child treated to the scrutiny his mother and he (and William) were/is.

Prevegen4U · 12/01/2020 04:36

As long as Harry and Meghan are sucking at the British taxpayer's teat then what they are doing is the people's business.

IAmNotAWitch · 12/01/2020 04:50

But why have a teat at all? What do ANY of them provide in return?

cheesemongery · 12/01/2020 05:23

Don't worry OP she's due to join the crisis talks via skype tomorrow!

Phew, glad that's sorted for you.

MrOnionsBumperRoller · 12/01/2020 07:11

Probably left Archie incase she got 'Dianad' ?

TimeForDinnerDinnerDinner · 12/01/2020 07:26

Poor MM Flowers
When this all dies down I hope she and PH have a happy life together.

Rumboogie · 12/01/2020 07:28

As PP have said, baby left in case they were prevented from taking him out of the country again, though I doubt the Queen would have done this in the circs.

Clearly this has been very carefully planned, down to the last detail.

lostsoulsunited · 12/01/2020 07:30

If they don't then the views will be split between blaming the media (yes) or it being because she is black/American/divorced/too bossy (no)

slipperywhensparticus · 12/01/2020 07:36

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NoSauce · 12/01/2020 07:37

I bet Samantha Markle is loving this. I wonder whether she’ll turn out to be right all along. Time will tell I guess.

StealthPolarBear · 12/01/2020 07:47

slipperywhensparticus assuming those icons are laughing and clapping that's an awful post.

Chocolatedaim · 12/01/2020 07:57

After the documentary with Tom Bradby I was certain this would eventually happen and I’m so pleased for them both. The whole Andrew/Epstein thing won’t have helped either I shouldn’t have thought. I personally would want to distance myself from a family member like that.
They deserve peace and happiness.
Harry truly believes the press killed his mom, what man, father, wouldn’t want to protect his wife and child from this.
The mind boggles at how personally offended some members of the public and press seem to be taking their decision. 🤷🏻‍♀️

slipperywhensparticus · 12/01/2020 07:57

This is an awful thread like they would really allow her to run off with the baby diana wasnt even allowed her kids Christmas day ffs

If they want to live in canada they should

gassylady · 12/01/2020 08:02

I’ve not heard about the queen having parental responsibility for the grandchildren that is greater than that of their own parents😱! Any sources for that.

iem0128 · 12/01/2020 08:05

She must have planned to go back as the baby and dog are both there. The woman is a me, me, me narcissist and people talked about she could go back to Hollywood. As far as I know, she's only a TV actress! Wait till she finds out the tax implications. Nobody wants to fund her security and the logistics is a nightmare. Cakeism is alive and well in that family. When I read stories about very disabled people being forced to go through PPI or disabled people got their cars removed, I really think it's high time these lucky people born with a sliver spoon got real .. It's simply unsustainable to pay for security for weddings for various granddaughters who are lucky enough to get well paid jobs on the back of their undeserved titles.

NotQuiteUsual · 12/01/2020 08:10

Who would deal with a jetlagged baby for the sake of a couple days if they didn't have to? And if she stayed with Harry, leaving Archie, she'd be criticised for that. I don't massively care about them or this whole drama, but it's clear they can do no right.

WendyMoiraAngelaDarling · 12/01/2020 08:13

OP you’ve obviously never flown to the wet coast of Canada. No direct flights, immigration line ups....

Must have imagined that direct BA flight I took to Vancouver in August 2019 then. Loads of automated passport machines too. We were through in 15 minutes. Had to wait almost an hour after that for luggage though Angry

WendyMoiraAngelaDarling · 12/01/2020 08:14

And let's face it, would Meghan really have been waiting hours to show her passport? Unlikely.

EerieSilence · 12/01/2020 08:15

The only thing that I find fascinating about this is how fast the media dropped Andrew to move on to a more comfortable subject of dissing a coloured foreign who didn’t want to walk the line quietly.
Expect Andrew being slowly included into public royal activities in the coming weeks. Blood and white aristocratic privilege can’t be underestimated.

Normandy144 · 12/01/2020 08:15

Having travelled to Canada both east and west coast with babies and young children multiple times, the jet lag is horrible for them and for the parents! It takes about a week before everyone is sleeping properly again. There's no way on this earth I'd put a baby through it twice in one week if i didn't have to. But go ahead and make this out to be something more sinister than it actually is if that entertains you! I personally think they made a sensible decision.

BigChocFrenzy · 12/01/2020 08:17

"Wait till she finds out the tax implications." Hmm

Like the rest of us, she'll have paid tax all her working life
She didn't accumulate millions by being ignorant about money

BigChocFrenzy · 12/01/2020 08:19

The country would save millions though if they'd all just go

AND if there was no monarchy, none of them would need us to pay for their security either

Currently, Harry is the sone of the future king and brother of the next one,
so he'd need security even if he went into a monastery for life

CreekIsRising · 12/01/2020 08:30

They're still going to get £5 mill a year though, and state is required to provide security for them so they'll get that as well. Definitely a sensible decision to take the money and not do anything for it.