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Your examples of bone idle laziness!

185 replies

TightPants · 10/01/2020 20:33

School mum lives down my road. I actually live further from the school than she does and it’s a 7 minute walk for me and DC.
This mum (who is not disabled in any way btw) actually gets in her car and drives her DC to school. I see her parking up back at home on my way back so she’s not dropping DC on the way to work either. This is morning.
WTF!

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Heartofglass12345 · 10/01/2020 22:51

My next door neighbour and her next door neighbour have kids in the same school which is about a 5 minute walk away and they take it in turns to drive them there
(I probably would too if it was raining Grin) mine go to a welsh school which is much further away lol

deste · 10/01/2020 22:53

Someone I knew would eat a natural yoghurt from the carton and a jar of chocolate spread from the jar at the same time and when she was finished would just throw the empties on the floor along with all her other empties. Her father told us she had had a bit of an episode through the night and when she woke up discovered everything from her wardrobe and drawers on the floor. The sad thing was he believed her. A house I went to would finish a toilet roll and chuck the end roll on the floor, there were hundreds of them. I dont know why I’m saying one house because loads of people do it. I could write a book on laziness from what I have seen.

Dementedmagpie · 10/01/2020 22:56

I have a work colleague who is ridiculously lazy and gets the lift down 1 flight of stairs to the toilet and gets everyone to do their errands (paying in a cheque to the bank, putting something in the post, delivering things) They have no disability

RhodaDendron · 10/01/2020 22:56

Must confess I have been this lazy - I had to do the school run with severe morning sickness and just had to get it over with. I was scared of being sick while wrangling a two year old in the street! Then I got too pregnant and achey to wrangle said two year old safely over the road. So I drove instead of making the ten minute walk for a few months... it didn’t feel great but we are all alive at the end of it and will soon be back to walking except when it’s raining or windy or a bit grey or I’m tired

Spartonian · 10/01/2020 22:56

It's might be that the DC have a disability and have difficulty walking.

Not the parent.

Hippychickster · 10/01/2020 22:58

Some of these have really made me laugh!

managedmis · 10/01/2020 23:02

She is a Lazy cunt.

^

Quite GrinWine

BrickTop999 · 10/01/2020 23:11

Ha ha ya gotta love MN’s

None of them ever fly, ever drive, always protecting the environment ....... but omg criticise someone else ! Its full of mind your own business

The woman is a lazy bitch, just like loads of the 4x4 clogging up the roads at school run times

Tothemoonandbackx · 10/01/2020 23:16

Me and my OH go to his parents once a week for dinner, if we were to walk, according to google maps, it would take us an 1 hour & 15 minutes. His brother on the other hand and again according to google maps, lives a 3 minute walk away. We drive up every week, but so does his brother, wife and their kids. They also live opposite to the kids school, you can see it from their front window and my OH's parents pick the kids up and bring them back to theirs after. So it's not as if it's for the benefit of the kids that they drive there. I could understand if the weather wasn't great, or they'd come back from a day out etc but no, they come straight from home, come rain or shine. It actually takes them longer messing around getting the kids in the car than it would for them to just walk Confused

Stompythedinosaur · 10/01/2020 23:18

All my examples involve myself! I text dp a few nights ago to bring me a hot water bottle when I was chilly watching TV in bed the other day.

TightPants · 10/01/2020 23:28

@BarbedBloom I have an inflammatory arthritis too. I’m stiff as a board in the morning but thankfully on good meds so I loosen up much quicker than I used to! Fair play to you for for doing a gym class - I’m so unfit, the school run is my cardio Blush

This mum and her kid do not have disabilities!!

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BarbedBloom · 10/01/2020 23:37

@Tightpants It sucks doesn't it? Am having a flare just now so definitely no gym class at the moment as I can't use my right hand at all. I normally do pilates but try something a bit more energetic when I am having a good period. Sadly my meds aren't working well just now. This woman is probably just super lazy then, I have seen people drive stupid distances before, one woman used to drive to the shop at the end of the road near me, it took her longer to get into the car and park

NameChangeNugget · 11/01/2020 00:14

YANBU.

Sounds like a delight

PaprikaPringle · 11/01/2020 00:21

God all these driving one are really boring.

marchez · 11/01/2020 00:27

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ClientListQueen · 11/01/2020 00:40

My neighbours are too lazy to walk the (I counted) approx 30 steps to free on street parking so they just abandon their car in the road, blocking me in HmmAngry

I often used to ride my horse to and from the field as I CBA walking

Retroflex · 11/01/2020 01:37

@TightPants I don't know how you can possibly say "(who is not disabled in any way btw)" unless you are her doctor... Hmm

If I was having a good day, or rather if I was feeling good in the mornings and wasn't using my wheelchair to go on a short journey in a car, you'd probably not believe I was disabled either... Hmm

Get on with your own life and stop judging people you don't know?

Retroflex · 11/01/2020 01:42

Let’s just say I know.

It’s literally a 4 minute walk for her. If she had CFS or IBS I doubt she could manage regular punishing exercise classes.

GrinGrinGrin you have absolutely no idea how someone with a "hidden disability" manages their condition and physiotherapy though... Hmm

Retroflex · 11/01/2020 01:46

This mum and her kid do not have disabilities!!

You don't actually know her, so you don't actually know this... Hmm

Sparklfairy · 11/01/2020 02:51

Retroflex okok you've made your point. Across three posts. Saying the same thing. We get it. Hmm

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 11/01/2020 02:58
vodkaredbullgirl · 11/01/2020 03:02

I text me eldest earlier to get me a drink from the fridge lol

imaflutteringkite · 11/01/2020 03:02

You've no idea of her reasons for doing this so mind your own business.

I live 10 mins away from school and almost always drive there for various reasons. I don't share my reasons with my nosy neighbours so like you they probably assume I'm lazy. I'm not. Biscuit

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 11/01/2020 03:15

Some of my friends at university ended up sharing a house with three other people whom they didn't know. One of them brought a holdall full of damp clothes when she moved in and left it in the kitchen corner, under the counter. The clothes were never dealt with or dried out, so they simply stayed there, rotting away nicely. People started throwing rubbish on top of it instead of walking a few yards to the bin and the whole large area ended up becoming a 'bin corner' until they all vacated at the end of the year.

In the same house, a friend who was helping them move in but not living there himself bought himself a Chinese takeaway at the end of a busy day, ate most of it and then left the rest in the fridge. At the end of the year, it was still there at the back of a shelf, all lovely green and furry.

There was a corner shop about 30 yards away from the house, which sold milk in glass bottles and then accepted the empties back in to return to the dairy. One lad bought a bottle regularly and couldn't be bothered to take the bottle back every day, so he put them on the windowsill. This would have been reasonable if he'd taken them back once a week or so but, no, by the end of the year, loads of them were still there, precariously balanced on top of each other, blocking out the clear view of the shop that was no distance away at all!

In one student house that I lived in, I had a housemate who kept the 4-pint milk cartons and took them up to his room and used them for, erm, 'night-water' purposes (daytime as well, actually). As if that wasn't grim enough, he would then bring them back downstairs, walk past the bathroom where he could at least have tipped it down the toilet, and into the kitchen, where he left them next to the bin. Oh, and just in case it helps to know, he never found it necessary to keep or re-use the carton lids at all. Envy

1forAll74 · 11/01/2020 03:23

It seems to be quite common in my village, as in mothers who seem not to be able to walk,and their offspring too, as they take a two minute drive from their house near here for their drop off school lazy kids.