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To be offended by slogan on travel mug

42 replies

gk6277 · 09/01/2020 23:04

I was given a travel mug by a sibling with 'Smug for Life' printed on it. I realise this is a pun, but my sibling doesn't have much of a sense of humour. Am I wrong to be a bit miffed / offended ?

OP posts:
sweeneytoddsrazor · 09/01/2020 23:07

Sounds more like you are the one without a sense of humour

stophuggingme · 09/01/2020 23:08

Really?

WombatStewForTea · 09/01/2020 23:08

I don't get how you could possibly be offended by that? Seriously can you explain why?

SharkInfested · 09/01/2020 23:12

Isn't the joke/slogan supposed to be you're smug because you're 'saving the environment'? Not smug in general.

MarthasGinYard · 09/01/2020 23:13

EhConfused

Whatsitthingy · 09/01/2020 23:14

So, re-usable mugs/ cups are sometimes jokingly referred to as ‘smug mugs’ as in you’re doing your bit for the environment by not using paper cups. And feeling ‘smug’ While still drinking ‘black gold’ that is.
Except not really because of course it’s good to have a re-usable mug, particularly if it’s lasting for your life. Get it????
In other words, you are being too sensitive but maybe family therapy can help you work through the deepseated issues that brought you here

gk6277 · 09/01/2020 23:14

I suppose cos the person giving it to me is serious, I am concerned they are having some sort of dig at me. Just me being over sensitive maybe. BTW I am not at all smug, and actually DO have a sense of humour, just overthinking I guess 🙄

OP posts:
FlamingoAndJohn · 09/01/2020 23:16

My friend gave me and dh a pair of mugs with UNT written on them and black handles (I’ll let you work it out). Should I have been offended?

cybergran · 09/01/2020 23:16

someone gives you a decent, well thought our present and you are offended... wtf is wrong with you?

gk6277 · 09/01/2020 23:17

Sorry I was not aware re-usable mugs/ cups are sometimes jokingly referred to as ‘smug mugs’ makes a bit more sense I guess. No family therapy needed thanks 🤨

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gk6277 · 09/01/2020 23:26

Thanks everyone, I happily accept the consensus that I am being unreasonable / over sensitive 😀😆

OP posts:
crustycrab · 09/01/2020 23:30

S'mug? As in it's a mug?

Oilyoilyoilgob · 09/01/2020 23:32

@FlamingoAndJohn absolutely love the sound of those mugs!

WorraLiberty · 09/01/2020 23:50

Bloody hell

Seriously no words

PetPeter · 09/01/2020 23:51

My friend gave me and dh a pair of mugs with UNT written on them
Your friend should have given you one UNT mug and one OCK mug

ahagwearsapointySantahat · 09/01/2020 23:51

It's just like "bag for life" - "mug for life" and you get to be smug about that (especially when you get money off your coffee/extra loyalty stamps in various places for using it - top tip!)

Catsandchardonnay · 10/01/2020 00:00

Sounds like a nice gift. You’re trying really really hard to be offended aren’t you OP? Do you not like your sibling?

DecisioNN · 10/01/2020 00:01

Well I was given a mug saying “Pstt it could be prosecco”. If I was easily offended I could think that he thinks I’m an alcoholic.... but I’m not going to over think it! 😉

midnightmisssuki · 10/01/2020 00:03

Jesus Christ on a bike. Give me strength! YABU.

TheFoxAndTheMole · 10/01/2020 00:03

If you have to overthink to decide whether or not to be offended, it's generally not worth the effort.

CaptainCabinets · 10/01/2020 00:10

I don’t think your sibling is the one lacking a sense of humour Wink

PyongyangKipperbang · 10/01/2020 00:19

I didnt know about them being called smug mugs! I shall happily refer to my Slytherin travel mug as such from now on, which I use at the drive thru Greggs on my way to work cos it gets me 20p off. So that might dent my smug credibility!

Yes, drive thru greggs is a thing, nearly fell off my sausage roll when I found out :o

AFemaleWoman · 10/01/2020 00:28

Instead of his and her mugs dh and I have the cunt with the C for the handle mug and also one that says Bitch with the B for the handle.

Dh has the bitch mug and I have the cunt one :)

Ilovemypantry · 10/01/2020 00:38

Are you normally so easily offended OP?

Gemma2019 · 10/01/2020 00:50

I wouldn't be overjoyed to receive it to be honest - it's a weird choice of gift out of all the lovely travel mugs they could have chosen. Maybe it was reduced? I've never heard them called smug mugs either.

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