Oh I’m so glad you’ve all moved onto hypothetical cleaners who are anti abortion.
I have an actual cleaner (don’t be jealous, my house is a shit tip, the cleaner helps with the worst due to my physical disabilities and my daughters asc/pda/adhd and the fact they don’t sleep because of this. Your houses are all cleaner and nicer than mine I promise).
Now my cleaner is European, catholic, and a MAN! Him or at times his wife have been our cleaners since our girls were teeny so we know them very well, and are all close enough to gift Xmas presents and bring back holiday gifts etc and I’ve passed on some of the nicer clothes our kids grow out of for his grandkids. He speaks very little English but his wife speaks much better English and there’s plenty times we’ve sat and had a cuppa while I’ve been nursing little ones or crying about asc assessments and similar. Now neither husband or wife have specifically stated they are anti abortion etc but they have said before they are catholic, and have briefly commented on things like how they have so many kids and grandkids because of their religion. They may well hold much more extreme catholic beliefs for all I know and maybe they are public about this on social media. So the fuck what?! Doesn’t harm us at all. If they started telling us not to use contraception or told our daughters that abortion was a sin then I’d stop employing them but if it’s stated on social media (if they have any) it’s none of my business.
We are atheists and as our children have autism abstract concepts like a god we don’t believe in within our family are really difficult for them to grasp, and upsetting to them (they have extreme anxiety over things that wouldn’t provoke anxiety to most). Our cleaner has definitely mentioned in passing god or Jesus etc in reference to Xmas or similar. If my kids get distressed then I just have to explain to them that other people have other beliefs and explain to him that we don’t personally believe in god. This for us is something that can cause weeks of upset with the girls -although it can be hard to tell as they have constant upset over something or other it feels- but it’s still not that big of a deal. He doesn’t need to be told never to mention things we don’t believe in in our house and our kids will have to learn others hold different beliefs however hard that is for them to grasp.