I’d be interested in knowing their actual income and outgoings.
Several times on mn alone I’ve entered discussions with people claiming to be struggling, mainly giving as much advice as I can because I’ve been operating on a tight budget almost my whole adult life and so I’m pretty good at spotting where and how to cut back and am a good bargain hunter/haggler/deal finder...
...only for it to turn out the op is simply extravagant in some way and unwilling to make the sacrifices necessary to achieve their aim!
I’m not saying people can’t spend as they wish (providing not incurring debt) but don’t fritter away on crap AND then moan you’ve no money for something else you want.
I have anecdotal stories from my experience of sitting in a meeting with a person claiming they need to be housed by the council and yet they had chosen to buy a car that cost them over £400 a month exactly the kind of thing I’m talking about! That’s more than rent for a 2 bed round here!
@iwouldprefernotto - sorry but £500 a month for luxuries emergencies IS a lot! You are certainly not poor!
I agree with @waxonwaxoff0 op, £40k is NOT “poor”, living/working in central London, having however many kids is a choice. Another thread recently about the ridiculously frequent claims of “my job doesn’t exist outside London” showed that really it’s just an excuse to try and justify WANTING to live and work in London - a valid choice but it needs to be recognised and acknowledged as such.
“Like I think it’s ridiculous that if your on the dole you get free nursery hours from aged 2 but if you work it’s from aged 3...surely it should be the other way round!” Why not from age 2 for both?
From having a play around on benefits calculators the govt seems to think a 2 parent family with 2 high school age (so not usually needing childcare) kids need around £30k to live on - if they’re working. £19k if job seeking.
I’d say that’s about right for the majority of people in the Uk, I do understand living costs vary around the country but then there are people living in London and other expensive areas (London doesn’t have the monopoly on this!) who are on benefits, working part time or full time on a low wage.
“I think it's a disgrace that people who work full time have to get UC at all to have enough(ish) money to live on. The minimum wage is a joke right now and it looks like it won't be changing for these people anytime soon.” Totally agree. A full time job SHOULD pay enough to live on without top ups from the govt, those top ups aren’t really benefitting the recipients - they’re increasing the profits for their employers! Large, very profitable companies are taking the piss paying nmw.