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To think that only posh people say Father Christmas?!

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charliesp · 05/12/2019 12:20

And everyone else says Santa?

I say Santa but my posh DH and all his family and posh friends say Father Christmas.

Anyone else noticed this? Or AIBU?

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SpiderCharlotte · 06/12/2019 13:24

Yep definitely Americanism

Oh my fucking god ... 🤦

gingergittable · 06/12/2019 13:28

I got a deletion I was so mad. (Totally not against any Mumsnet rules though Hmm Wasn't a personal attack on anyone in particular.)

Funny how Mumsnet let xenophobia comments stand. They would delete them if it were about anywhere but the US.

MissConductUS · 06/12/2019 13:30

Funny how Mumsnet let xenophobia comments stand. They would delete them if it were about anywhere but the US.

I've reported quite a few really horrible anti-American posts. None of them were removed.

ThisBear · 06/12/2019 13:31

There aren't enough🤦‍♀️ in the world for this thread.

Chemenger · 06/12/2019 13:31

I’ve never been deleted but I might go for it if there are many more Flumpywoos. Might report as an obvious troll.

OkPedro · 06/12/2019 13:43

Again! for the love of fuckn Santa Claus R T F T 😡😡😡
@Flumpywoo

cukooboo · 06/12/2019 13:45

It's hilarious how so many posters on this thread are simultaneously proud of their working class roots (don't wanna be getting notions)p & their xenophobia.

astralweaks · 06/12/2019 14:03

The odd stealth boast is entertaining too. Bet the ones who slip it in are really not “posh” at all.Wink

FrancisCrawford · 06/12/2019 14:03

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FrancisCrawford · 06/12/2019 14:06

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dreichXmas · 06/12/2019 14:06

I debated reporting the anti American comments, I'm very sure they wouldn't be allowed to stand if they were about some other countries.

gingergittable · 06/12/2019 14:11

If there's was a thread with lots of - yuk India. Tacky India. Common nasty Indians. You sure as shit know those comments should be getting deleted and the poster warned.

Threads like these are precisely why I will never moved back to England. A few narrow minded people are really doing the country a lot of harm. Sad

Flumpywoo · 06/12/2019 14:15

Don't people just love to take offence on here where there was none intended. It isn't a criticism to say something is American, it is that from my own experience British/English people used to use Father Christmas but due to American (ok, global, sorry) influences Santa is more common now. It even tells you on BBC America than Americans refer to him as Santa (see attached). I want to keep the Father Christmas name the same as I sometimes still call Starburst "Opal Fruits" as this is what they used to be called. But hey ho, go and feel like some of us are insulting Americans when I am not whatsoever.

To think that only posh people say Father Christmas?!
dementedpixie · 06/12/2019 14:18

You're insulting Scottish, Irish and Welsh people now who dont call him Father Christmas as standard and never have. Dont say British when you know you just mean English.

SpiderCharlotte · 06/12/2019 14:21

Did you read the thread @Flumpywoo?

SpiderCharlotte · 06/12/2019 14:23

And you do understand that British people are not just English?

Flumpywoo · 06/12/2019 14:29

Also I am not saying it originates from America, but that Americans refer to him as Santa, and we watch American programmes and films, so this is possibly why people use the term more nowadays. Because I want to stick to my tradition doesn't mean I am anti-American, it is a preference of using a name
because of my own childhood experience.

Flumpywoo · 06/12/2019 14:44

I have read the thread but not all the comments, but responding to people saying people like me are anti-American/being critical. Yes I can see now that Irish and Scottish people use the term Santa, but it's not something I have ever paid attention to, I don't watch many Irish or Scottish programmes. And yes I do know that there are more British people than just English, I'm not stupid. Sorry that I didn't say "British, or more specifically English" rather than "British/English". Sometimes people write thjngs in a hurry!
Anyway I have better things to do so have fun arguing and picking at people's posts!!!

ArnoldWhatshisknickers · 06/12/2019 15:02

It isn't a criticism to say something is American

No, but saying something is a 'tacky' Americanism that makes the person saying it sound 'common' is unpleasant and wouldn't be tolerated if it were about Indians, or Kenyans, or Vietnamese sayings.

SlightlyStaleCocoPops · 06/12/2019 15:07

"Anyway I have better things to do so have fun arguing and picking at people's posts"

Ah yes, the usual flounce when someone makes themselves look like an idiot.

AhNowTed · 06/12/2019 15:16

I find the whole FC "is nicer" thing perplexing.

Santa Claus is a derivative of Saint Nicholas, the patron saint of children.

"His reputation evolved among the faithful, as was common for early Christian saints, and his legendary habit of secret gift-giving gave rise to the traditional model of Santa Claus through Sinterklaas."

Both terms are equally valid and traditional depending on where you live, but i can't understand why FC is perceived as somehow "nicer". Odd.

ThisBear · 06/12/2019 15:34

Irish and Scottish people use the term Santa, but it's not something I have ever paid attention to

Hitting the nail on the head there. We're not worth thinking about. And as far as the media is concerned, Britain is England. How lovely...

FrancisCrawford · 06/12/2019 15:41

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Celebelly · 06/12/2019 15:42

Hope Santa shits in the stockings of some of the posters on this thread Xmas Grin

phoenixrosehere · 06/12/2019 15:44

It even tells you on BBC America than Americans refer to him as Santa (see attached).

And BBC America has gone to all the different regions and 50 states to come to this conclusion? This is like going to an “American” restaurant in England and assuming this is the way Americans make their food when more often than not it is the British interpretation of it.

Yes, many Americans say Santa Claus, but not all. Many Brits say Father Christmas, but not all as has been said countless times on this very thread. Most Americans wouldn’t bat an eye because funny enough we know the different names for Santa Claus and don’t care which name you use.

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