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The word "me" exists and it is not impolite or uneducated to use it in its proper context.

188 replies

UnaCorda · 24/11/2019 17:59

AIBU?

OP posts:
Dahlietta · 24/11/2019 18:00

YANBU

Dishwashersaurous · 24/11/2019 18:01

Err you what?

CruCru · 24/11/2019 18:01

It’s a lot better than “myself” most of the time.

DontGoIntoTheLongGrass · 24/11/2019 18:02

Are we talking about myself when people like myself use myself as every other word in a sentence...myself.

It does annoy me actually.

ThreeRandomWords · 24/11/2019 18:02

Is this about people saying "myself", when they mean "me"?

YANBU

MsPotterPepper · 24/11/2019 18:03

YANBU.

Baguetteaboutit · 24/11/2019 18:03

Well that seems perfectly reasonable to myself.

Gallivespian · 24/11/2019 18:04

‘That would be myself, Lord Sugar.’

TheHumanSatsuma · 24/11/2019 18:04

From myself to yourselves....

SoftBlocks · 24/11/2019 18:04

YANBU!

UrsulaPandress · 24/11/2019 18:05

YANBU. Gives me the rage.

PuzzledObserver · 24/11/2019 18:05

I’ve got news for you. “I” is also a word. As in, “The kids and I are going to the park,” rather than “Me and the kids are going to the park.”

Sazquatch · 24/11/2019 18:06

Yes! The misuse of ‘myself’ is incredibly annoying. I really hope it dies out soon, it just makes people sound daft when they’re trying to sound educated.

FeltCarrot · 24/11/2019 18:07

Or people who use “I” when it should be “me”. Even worse is “I’s” when it should be “mine” ( or maybe I should just stop watching Love Island Australia😂😂)

dontalltalkatonce · 24/11/2019 18:08

The misuse of 'myself' drives me round the twist.

donttalktomeaboutcarinsurance · 24/11/2019 18:08

When I have a conversation with a work colleague and she'll always voice her opinion with the same opening phrase. "Well, for me myself, I think..." don't even know where to start with that one!

UnaCorda · 24/11/2019 18:08

Yes, either "myself" or "I".

For example: "She has bought presents for my DC and I..." or "It reminded him of my hubby and I last year..." That sort of thing.

Drives I potty.

OP posts:
BestOption · 24/11/2019 18:09

I think if you’re going to ‘make a point’, on a forum like this with people from all kinds of backgrounds it’s going to come across as a dig and not terribly pleasant. So, I think the very least you can do is help those people out by giving examples of when me, myself or I should be used.

RossPoldark · 24/11/2019 18:09

In my letters I always dictate 'me' and my secretary always changes it to 'myself' Confused it drives me mad.

Baguetteaboutit · 24/11/2019 18:10

She clearly hates you Ross Grin

SabineUndine · 24/11/2019 18:10

People say 'myself' because they don't know whether to say 'me' or 'I' and it sounds much worse than either. Saying 'I' when you should say 'me' also sounds pretty bad. There's nothing wrong with saying 'me' all the time, even if it's sometimes bad grammar because that's how normal people talk.

Baguetteaboutit · 24/11/2019 18:11

Or he Blush

UnaCorda · 24/11/2019 18:11

I’ve got news for you. “I” is also a word. As in, “The kids and I are going to the park,” rather than “Me and the kids are going to the park.”

Well yes, of course. But it's a different (grammatical) case, innit?

OP posts:
Longfacenow · 24/11/2019 18:11

I have a colleague who insists on using myself instead of me because she thinks it makes her look smarter. I will show her this thread and why we have all tried to correct her for years.

RossPoldark · 24/11/2019 18:12

@Baguetteaboutit yes I suspect she probably does Blush