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The word "me" exists and it is not impolite or uneducated to use it in its proper context.

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UnaCorda · 24/11/2019 17:59

AIBU?

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Gallivespian · 25/11/2019 14:28

Agreed entirely @NotTonightJosepheen. Though I have been known, for the amusement of a NI Protestant friend, who is fascinated by Irish but doesn't speak any, to say 'Oh, hunger is upon me, let's go for lunch.'

It has a wonderfully melodramatic air in English.

NotTonightJosepheen · 25/11/2019 15:06

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UnaCorda · 25/11/2019 15:11

Spit it out

"Alot" is not a word.

Neither is "awhile". (Well it is, but not in the way it's often used.)

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GhoulWithADragonTattoo · 25/11/2019 15:20

I always think of this as if I took the other person out what would the sentence be.

So, "I am going to dinner tonight." becomes
"David and I are going to dinner tonight".

If someone then asks me who is going to dinner? I reply "[David and] me." If I going on my own I could add "I am going to dinner by myself." "David and I are going by ourselves would also work."

AryaStarkWolf · 25/11/2019 15:22

UnaCorda

Jesus, you're a barrel of laughs at a party I'd say

katy1213 · 25/11/2019 15:41

Call centre grammar. (As in, 'We'll send confirmation to yourself ...')
Aarrgh!

Nanny0gg · 25/11/2019 15:45

Another thread today had 'Ourselves and...'

NotTonightJosepheen · 25/11/2019 15:51

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astralweaks · 25/11/2019 16:08

AryaStarkWolf

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Spit it out

...alot...

CoolCarrie · 25/11/2019 16:11

Yous is terrible, that Rylan guy says it all the time, it is like nails down a blackboard to me!

TildaKauskumholm · 25/11/2019 16:22

English teacher here - I don't get worked up about the wrong use of 'me' or 'I', as I understand some folks might not have been taught grammar. However, using 'myself' just makes you sound like a pretentious twat.

modgepodge · 25/11/2019 16:33

Agreed that Alan Sugar’s grammar is atrocious, however he speaks like a bit of a geezer, and it’s a regional dialect thing. He probably knows it’s grammatically incorrect and doesn’t care, and I bet if he was writing he’d say ‘you were’ not ‘you was’.

When the candidates say ‘myself and Ryan were in charge of that’ or ‘I really want to impress yourself, lord sugar’, they are deliberately changing ‘I’ or ‘me’ or ‘you’ because they think it sounds better. IT DOESN’T.

campion · 25/11/2019 16:52

AryaStarkWolf I'd be more than happy to meet UnaCorda at a party. She's witty and amusing and I bet she's good company irl. And she's unlikely to say "can I get a drink for yourself"!

ReceptacleForTheRespectable · 25/11/2019 16:56

using 'myself' just makes you sound like a pretentious twat

There seem to be a lot of people who think it makes then sound more intelligent.

They are wrong.

Ohyesiam · 25/11/2019 16:57

Oh man I hate the overuse of "myself"! Grammatically wrong and makes you sound like a pretentious arse.
I wouldn’t day pretentious, more thick as mince.
I don’t actually think ( non Irish) people who say it are think, but it makes them sound thick.

Elle7rose · 25/11/2019 17:05

'I' is the 'Subject' (this is the only context in which 'is' should follow 'I'!), e.g. 'Sam and I are going to the shops'. You only use it where you would use the pronouns 'he/she'.

Me is the object- 'He bought a lovely present for me'. You only use it when you would use 'him/her.

It also annoys me when people use 'whom' incorrectly; 'To whom did you give the chocolate bar' is fine; 'From whom did you get the chocolate bar' is incorrect.

AryaStarkWolf · 25/11/2019 17:06

AryaStarkWolf I'd be more than happy to meet UnaCorda at a party. She's witty and amusing and I bet she's good company irl. And she's unlikely to say "can I get a drink for yourself"!

You can all stand in the corner correcting other people's grammar, what fun you will have your yourselves :p

NotTonightJosepheen · 25/11/2019 17:12

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CardiFree · 25/11/2019 17:24

I, personally find that tautologies get on my tits, ^one after another, in succession.
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This thread has cheered me up mightily during an otherwise crap day OP. Ignore the snowflakes.
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AdaColeman · 25/11/2019 17:30

"Methinks" is a valuable prat indicator.

astralweaks · 25/11/2019 17:57

NotTonightJosepheen

From whom did you get the chocolate bar' is incorrect.

Are you quite sure? I think you're mistaken.

I’d like to hear the explanation, too.

Gallivespian · 25/11/2019 18:04

From whom did you get the chocolate bar' is incorrect.

No, it isn't.

astralweaks · 25/11/2019 18:11

(Of course it isn’t but I would like to hear why the poster thinks it is wrong...)

Gallivespian · 25/11/2019 18:12

Fair enough, @astral. Grin

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