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489 replies

ChaiTeaChai · 16/11/2019 12:36

Apart from the fact I'm curious, making a career change. My heart is in midwifery but the pay is bad. I'm money motivated so know I could do something I'm less passionate about if it meant more money.

Currently doing an access course.

OP posts:
UsedtobeFeckless · 17/11/2019 18:36

Contract killer - minimum wage ( l'm not very good )

HeronLanyon · 17/11/2019 18:39

Criminal barrister - once clerks fees, chambers rent (around 20%), Vat, tax, travel etc accounted for a good ‘wage’ (self employed) but much less than many expect it to be.

Nimmykins · 17/11/2019 18:41

Journalist £22k

Zenithbear · 17/11/2019 18:42

Landlord £7000
Part time in hospitality £10000

millimollimandi · 17/11/2019 18:44

Civil servant - £20k. AND we've just had a pay rise...

Kidsaregrim · 17/11/2019 18:45

Midwife

Work 12 shifts a month, take home £2400 band 6 1year qualified.

Also top up with bank shifts and probably take home another £600 a month but will pick the shifts that pay most like Sunday long day or Saturday night. Still don’t work more than 4 days a week.

That’s inner London pay.

Midwifery is not a job it’s a vocation, you need to be invested 100%, if you don’t care don’t bother! You need to be detective, social worker, peace keeper, maid, cleaner, arse wiper and dogs body!

Flip it, you get to empower Women in a way no one else can, you build up a trusting relationship so quickly it’s like you have known someone 10 years within an hour, you get to be the first person to ever touch a new life, you will laugh, cry, and scream some days but then you come back to do it all over again.

If you looooove cuddling babies, don’t go into midwifery, they have their parents for that.

Midwifery is NOT nursing, we learn bloods, cannulation, IV’s, suturing, drugs towards the end of our training and in our preceptorship. We are autonomous practitioners, we can make decisions that we are accountable for (massive responsibility but massively rewarding).

Then you come on to mumsnet and see how hated the profession is, how many people complain about care they should never have received and you resolve that no one on your shift will ever feel like that! Most midwives I know try so hard to make sure “their” women are looked after and happy but there are limitations. On postnatal you can have 8-10 women and 8-10 babies, that’s 16-20 patients, most will need pain relief, anitibiotics, observations, feeding support, catheters emptying, that’s before you start with the TLC, debriefing, visitors, or women who just want a chat because their partner has gone and they are lonely after no sleep and hours and hours of feeding!

Then factor is safeguarding, drug addictions, mental health and somehow everything runs away and you are halfway through a shift, haven’t had a pee since you woke up, “lunch” will be 10 hours into your shift, and someone asks for paracetamol and you want to cry!

Then someone gives you a card and says thank you and you are SO grateful you want to cry all over again!

Then the training, you don’t just get a degree, you have to learn your hospitals own policies as well as national one, keep your practice current and evidence based (which actually means seeking out and reading the new evidence). You will want to keep learning new skills to help more women, you need to do mandatory updates and there is even more if you want to specialise.

Good luck, it really is a fabulous job for the right people

Ivebeentohellanditscalledikea · 17/11/2019 18:49

Teaching assistant in a special school full time 11k a year. Money is awful but I love my job

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tobee · 17/11/2019 18:50

I just wanted to come in to say I've had great experiences with midwives. In & out of hospital. I had 3 birth experiences and remember fondly and the names of my midwives; including my still born daughter born 22 years ago. My youngest dc is 20.

Fowles94 · 17/11/2019 18:50

On maternity leave atm. However senior carer 46.5 hours weekly. 19k before tax.

AriadneCrete · 17/11/2019 18:51

Teacher (with a TLR) in London- £52,000.

spacewitch99 · 17/11/2019 18:55

College lecturer. £42k pro rata.
Background in nursing (RGN and RSCN)
Teaching qualification.

Babawhitesheep · 17/11/2019 18:56

Communications director in a very specialist sector. £150k + 20-40% bonus.

MrsDaveGrohl78 · 17/11/2019 18:56

Store manager £25k plus bonuses

Joerev · 17/11/2019 18:57

Over 100k. I worked in the music industry. Bloody loved it. Now retraining in computer science. With a view to work in robotics. Hubby is also in IT.

Joerev · 17/11/2019 18:58

@UsedtobeFeckless hahahaha. How did you become one of those then?

StayClosePooky · 17/11/2019 18:58

senior social worker £40k ish
6 years in the profession

FastAway · 17/11/2019 19:03

@fllinn nope definitely not! Perhaps I have it wrong. I’m 99% sure it starts with a 5.....

Spacecudet · 17/11/2019 19:09

PT teacher £28k

UsedtobeFeckless · 17/11/2019 19:11

Joerev lt's quite niche - l used to manage a museum book shop for 20k plus bonuses and we had a percentage of really, seriously ghastly customers and l saw an opening and just went for it. Ultimate Retail Resolutions lnc. - If barring them or just hiding in the stock room until they get bored and go away doesn't work for you then give me a call ...

Oblomov19 · 17/11/2019 19:11

Reading with interest for careers for Ds1.

sunshine11 · 17/11/2019 19:14

Marketing manager £50k but work p/t so pro rata.
I do think some people sell themselves short “it’s not how good you are, it’s how good you want to be” Paul Arden

MadameJosephine · 17/11/2019 19:25

Midwife sonographer, NHS salary 40k but I earn about 6-7k more in the private sector.

clareken260 · 17/11/2019 19:26

Admin, £17,850, but that includes responsibilty points.

CFR8 · 17/11/2019 19:27

Financial Advisor - £60k ish.

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