is having an affair always wrong

[mad4simon]

i'm single , he's the one whose married !

Mad4simon

I would say the fact you are asking the question you know the answer is yes.

I will just give you an example.

I worked with someone who had an affair with a married man who had 5 children. He left his wife and children for her, 10yrs later she had 3 children with him. He had another affair and did the same to my freind, he left her for the other women. Leopards do not change their spots.

When i was 18 i was asked by a married man, I told him to get lost. I had more respect for myself then to see a married man, I would and did prefer to be single.

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Always wrong.

Always

Truth is i had an affair once, and I'm ashamed of myself for the hurt i caused. It wasn't untill it was nearly gone that i realized just how much i could loose.
We had some problems at the time, but nothing that coulnt be fixed, but my actions drove a wedge between us that made it almost unfixable.

If this man has problems than they are for him to work out between him and his wife, without help or interference from you.

mad4simon - I'm sorry to be so rude here but are you retarded in some way? You are on a parenting forum asking if it's okay to sleep with someone elses husband. First of all, the answer is always no and secondly, you might want to find a forum entitled something like:

a) I don't give a crap about other people
b) Who gives a stuff about families
c) His wife doesnt understand him

You might find a more sympathetic response aqt such places because that's what it appears you are after. Surely if you had a decent bone in your body you would leave other peoples relationships alone. My husband is in fact called Simon, I'm 8 months pregnant and if a sl*t like you happily pursued him, it would break my heart and I don't know if I would ever recover.

Lapin, four letter word, beginning with S.
We could play hang man??

there certainly is, and not a cuppa.

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Littlelapin - you're right. Apologies to anyone I've offended with my ill thought out remark.

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Have u got something to say to me mellow?

U calling me a HOOLET

Yes it is always wrong. If he wants to be in a new relationship with you he should leave his wife first, and you should also respect that he is married at present, and stay away until he is no longer with her.

Affairs almost always lead to people getting hurt. Why be part of that?

someone that I know (and its not me) has been seeing a married mand for about 15 years, they have a daughter together, she met him thru work, knew that he was married and started having an affair.

To cut quite a long and detailed story short his wife now knows and my friend is wondering why she keeps getting threatening phone calls night and day from his wife.

From the other point of view, my brother has never been faithful. I do beleive its cos they have all forgiven him and gone back with him that he has continued to do it.

mad4simon, If you really wanted you, then he would have left his wife for you, if he hasnt then he just wants both of you and it will end up being you that gets hurt.