is having an affair always wrong

[mad4simon]

i'm single , he's the one whose married !

got some serious thinking to do - i think its time to walk away from him (or maybe run)

Just imagine how you will feel if his wife finds out and becomes the bitch from hell, stalking you, trashing your car and your property. Following you into pubs with your man and pouring beer over your head. I wonder if it will all be worth it then. He may move in with you for a couple of weeks and then go back to his MRS. The grass is always greener on the other side.....until you get there.

I heard a saying once that I think is pretty apt for these kind of situations. It goes along the lines of: remember how you won them, because that is how you will lose them.

anyone out there with a husband called simon need not worry. The mad4simon bit is reference to that simon bloke off Tikkabilla, see - i do have a bad taste in men.

lazy lou, that is superb!

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in your case - i've only read the OP - yes.

I got for the hes the one whos married thing myself.

Thats said I wouldnt sleep with a married man because hes got to be a scumbag to be cheating on his wife.

Having said that though, its the married person that said the vows. Not the other person, and its them who are in the wrong, I think.
I dont get how its always the nasty single woman...

what goes around comes around! yes its wrong you might not "know" her but you have female friends? relatives? how would you feel about the ow if one of their partners cheated on them?

And what would you do in the wifes position if it was you and you found out? Some women are complete nut jobs!!! I being 1 of them!!!

Run before anyone gets hurt.

i know i not blameless, but i'm not the sort of woman who deliberately go out to steal other womens husbands. None of it was intentional, i have never done it before and i don't want to ever get in a situation like this again.

Oh, yes, it just sort of happened.

Grow up and own up.

How old are you? 19?

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What do you mean it wasn't intentional?

then get out. i always believe when the mistress become the gf/wife then there is a vacancy to fill! He loved her enough to marry her not being rude but why would it be different with you? And 99% of the time they do go back to the wife.

M4S, I think you probably came on here to get talked out of this. If that's the case, then good for you because I reckon you do know that it's wrong.

why ask this kind of question?

surely you know that it is of course, WRONG!

not read it all..are there children involved?? You are being irresponsible..and daft...there. The End.

he has children i their teens

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yes, really....I maybe think slightly different if you were the one married and he single, lol...

Oh yes, always, always. Speaking as the wife at the other side who found out and was utterly destroyed only to find out that they never stopped and "she" had the audacity to keep going too even though she knew I knew . Don't go down that route it is destructive to all involved. Especially if there are children involved. As for the "I'm not happy life" then he should leave first before the affair.

he hasn't promised me anything - so i guess i am just being used. Tha should make most people on this thread happy.

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