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In being at the end of my tether with ds? (Toilet issues.)

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bigflowerdog · 01/11/2019 18:32

Name changed for this as people on here know me irl but I've been around for ages and promise I'm not a weird poo perve.

DS is nearly 6 and just started school this September. He's been fully potty trained since he was about 2.5 (I think, around then anyway) with no issues.

He's just started pooing himself everyday! Sometimes twice a day. It's been about 2 weeks now. We've been very gentle and understanding but yesterday it ashamed to say I got pretty angry with him. I realised he had poo all over his hands and clothes and was just carrying on as normal! He got really upset and obviously I felt like a very shitty parent. Sad

He's also been hiding his pooey pants in places.

Today I got a call from his teacher, he's done it at school. Is this something I should take him to a doctor about? Could it be a physical thing? I yet can't see how or why it would be psychological.

The other kids are going to start to notice, it's a small community, people remember things kids did 30 years ago. He'll forever be the kid that used to shit himself. Sad

Anyone ever experienced this? Ugh. My patience is wearing really thin with it but I want to be as gentle as possible, going in full steam clearly won't help, especially if it isn't a medical thing.

OP posts:
Brenna24 · 13/11/2019 07:59

I hope that the Dr has some concrete answers for you when you see him.

Daftapath · 13/11/2019 12:28

Hope you get some answers op.

BusterGonad · 13/11/2019 12:57

Good luck op, and where you live in the States sounds delightful.

Lollypop701 · 13/11/2019 19:44

Good luck op, I hope everything works out.

SoniasTrumpet · 13/11/2019 20:49

Thinking of you OP. Sounds awful for all concerned.

katkit · 14/11/2019 13:43

Good luck OP x

bigflowerdog · 14/11/2019 16:16

His PEDIATRICIAN said she's not concerned with his bloods at all. The white cells are a little high but not a worry.

No accidents for two days and he's back at school. Fingers crossed it stays on a good track although I'm not getting over excited yet, I know there very well could be more regressions.

OP posts:
bigflowerdog · 14/11/2019 16:16

Sorry four big letters

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FraglesRock · 14/11/2019 16:42

That's a relief

Redspider1 · 14/11/2019 16:54

Fingers crossed across the pond.

Cornettoninja · 14/11/2019 17:08

Good to hear Smile they may want a little heads up in how they phrase bringing people back in - that would have had anyone panicking I think!

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