Feeling Stupid - Contacted First Boyfriend

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1997 - Holiday romance, lasted a year. Long distance, lots of letters and phone calls. No internet or mobiles back then. Slowly fizzled out.

1999 - Met my husband.

Very short dating history for me!

Often thought of my first boyfriend. How he did at uni, how his family was, what he did with his life etc. Not in a pining was, just curious.

So sent him a Facebook message, just a hello, remember me, hope you are well etc. 😀 Got a right mouthful back, asking if I was a bored housewife with nothing else to do. Was I bored of life, my kids to get in touch. ☹️ Now I feel like a right d**k.

I was very suspicious of several of my exes getting in contact in my mid 30's, often had small kids and were looking for more than a catch up

Now though as I head towards my 50s and I begin to realize it's getting on to 20 plus years since I have seen some old boyfriends who directly or indirectly had a huge impact on my life and I do want to know what happened to them, the friends they used to hang out with and family and it's weird to think I'll never know the 'ending'

If there was a mild stalker mode I'd really like to use it!

Anyway he obviously isn't very happy

Thinking about it, I have been watching alot of that Jimmy Carr show, your face or mine where they bring the ex out. Maybe that sparked my interest to wonder what happened to him? Subcontiously.