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AIBU?

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To ask why non-parents are here?

338 replies

hopityhopity · 13/10/2019 10:54

I see posters saying they don't have any children, or want any. So if you aren't a parent, pregnant or TTC, why are you here on mumsnet?🤔

OP posts:
CoolcoolcoolcoolcoolNoDoubt · 13/10/2019 18:35

A PP is right. Whatever you google, a mumsnet link is bound to be one of the top results. I think that’s what brought me here in the first place, can’t really remember. I stayed for the CF parking threads 🤷🏻‍♀️

RasberryRoyale · 13/10/2019 18:37

I am here as I’m ttc and I lurk on those boards. But it was a google search about unblocking my freezer that brought me here. Mumsnet has so much more than just kid threads.

vodkaredbullgirl · 13/10/2019 18:38

Well my 2 are now adults, im on here as i got banned from another site lol

billy1966 · 13/10/2019 18:41

MN is about relationships primarily, in all their forms.

SafetyAdvice0FeedWhenAgitated · 13/10/2019 18:46

If non parents weren't here you couldn't enjoy threads like today's nachos gate😂

BossAssBitch · 13/10/2019 18:53

I’ve been on MN for an eternity. Pretty much on a daily basis. I have never read a thread solely regarding children. Despite the name, MN is not just a parenting site, it’s a life site, a mine of information about pretty much every subject you can imagine. Google a question about something random, I bet an MN thread comes up in the answers.

Pinkblueberry · 13/10/2019 18:59

I don’t know if you’ve noticed OP but although mumsnet covers many parenting and pregnancy topics, there’s a lot more on here than that. Do you wonder why dads chat on here too? Are you always so literal?

redcarbluecar · 13/10/2019 19:00

I’ve only read the first page and am already irritated. Can you genuinely not see that there are threads / forums about things other than pregnancy, bringing up children and TTC?
Having said that, I (although child free) like reading about some of the child-related dilemmas - it’s all part of what people deal with in their lives, which I think is the basis of the site’s popularity

ALongHardWinter · 13/10/2019 19:03

Does it matter?

wildcherries · 13/10/2019 19:03

Is it that time again already? Sigh. This has been done to death.

Crystal87 · 13/10/2019 19:27

I never thought to come on here pre children, but there's loads on here for people who aren't parents. Most of the forums and threads aren't about children. You don't need to be a parent to be able to read/ answer threads unless it's specifically about parenting. Having said that, it is having children that brought me here in the first place.

JoanieCash · 13/10/2019 19:29
Biscuit
ForalltheSaints · 13/10/2019 19:30

To play Mornington Crescent.

PhilSwagielka · 13/10/2019 19:54

Mainly for the Chalet School threads.

Skysblue · 13/10/2019 20:15

It makes me a bit uncomfortable tbh OP. Mostly because anytime women form a space to discuss stuff to do with being a woman, it stops being a space about that very quickly. I don’t want to be on a thread about post-childbirth pelvic floor issues and then have someone wade in with “well from a man’s perspective...” or on a thread about fertility and suddenly have someone saying “I’ve never wanted children...”

I’m in a mums-only fb group and it’s lovely (and so much less judgy/ argumentative than mumsnet!)

WagtailRobin · 13/10/2019 20:21

I joined Mumsnet (quite recently) because I loved reading the Christmas/AIBU threads.

I don't have children (as of yet) but I find the idea that childless women are unwelcome on a public forum laughable to be honest. Who are you to dictate who should and shouldn't be allowed on here?

You're not superior because you're a mum, there are plenty of women in the world who will never be as fortunate as you to raise a child but that doesn't make them inferior.

Don't get stuck on your high horse!

Inthenewsagain · 13/10/2019 20:31

WagtailRobin you are SO welcome, don't let anyone make you feel otherwise xx

madcatladyforever · 13/10/2019 20:33

They are here to stop themselves having relationships or kids given half the posts here.

Butchyrestingface · 13/10/2019 20:37

They are here to stop themselves having relationships or kids given half the posts here.

I have been known to double down on the contraceptive after a night on the tiles here.

BuildBuildings · 13/10/2019 20:43

I'm here because it's full of women. In general they are supporting each other which I love. I disagree with lost on here but I also love how women tell each other not to take shit and value themselves. I've had some good advice too and hope I've helped some people a little too.

I found it when looking for advice to help my sister who has a child.

MrsDimmond · 13/10/2019 20:58

I'm just wondering what bought non-parents here.

Except you didn't ask that , you asked a different question why non-parents are here? You didn't ask the same question of parents? So, you have made a distinction.

And you don't see the irony of asking a question that itself has absolutely nothing to do with parenting!

You have yourself demonstrated that this is a forum discussing things other than parenting so have answered your (original) question

Crystal87 · 13/10/2019 21:15

Skysblue, it's an anonymous forum. Any time you post anything anywhere online, you can't control who sees it. So I think you're being silly.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 13/10/2019 21:18

Might be outing here, but my real name is Muriel. I used to have a very successful sideline providing a weekly digest of the output of the MSN empire specifically focusing on the content that would likely most interest and be relevant to the people in my country of Ethiopia.

I don't know how I missed it, but I had a lot on one month and I somehow didn't renew my domain name in time, so I lost the rights to it.

I cannot begin to tell you how furious I was when I next logged on to MuMSNEt and found it had been hijacked by this monstrosity.

Anyway, I instantly posted an AIBU about my horrendous ordeal, got some very funny replies, shrugged and said c'est la vie and have stuck around ever since.

LonginesPrime · 13/10/2019 21:30

WeBuiltThis Buffet GrinGrin

wildcherries · 13/10/2019 21:59

WeBuiltThis Buffet Hilarious Grin

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