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To tell you how proud I am of my son?

72 replies

Somebodystired · 07/10/2019 10:07

DS(2) started pre-school a month ago. I had a catch up with his key worker today to talk me through her initial assessments of him.

She has absolutely no concerns whatsoever - he is reaching all of his age appropriate milestones, and exceeding a few of them. She was a bit worried about his speech but he has caught up so quickly and is starting to use five-word sentences more regularly (he is 3 in six weeks).

I know none of this sounds exceptional, but -

I adopted my son just after he turned a year old. He was removed from his birth mum at birth, born at 32 weeks and spent the first weeks of his life in NICU. He has been through more in his little life than I would ever wish on my worst enemy, losing everything he has ever known and starting all over again. He even nearly moved in with another family who then "changed their mind" about adopting him just before his first birthday. He had been through introductions with them for a week and they decided not to bring him home on moving day.

I feel so overwhelmingly proud of him. He has overcome so much and to be told how he is thriving, how settled and happy he is there when I cant be with me, just makes my heart melt.

I've name changed since but here is my first post about him nearly two years ago...pleased to report I am still just as obsessed with him as I was back then Grin

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/mumsnet_classics/3136219-To-tell-you-about-my-first-night-with-my-son

OP posts:
NooneToldMeItWasRaining · 07/10/2019 10:11

YANBU how lovely and I am so pleased for your son that he was blessed with the right mummy after such a rocky start

FurnitureAndBackgammon · 07/10/2019 10:12

Ahh that's lovely OP, I'm glad he found you and you him.💐

TanteRose · 07/10/2019 10:13

I remember your first post

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/mumsnet_classics/3136219-To-tell-you-about-my-first-night-with-my-son

Made it clicky for you Smile

And wonderful news about you DS Smile

bloodywhitecat · 07/10/2019 10:14

That's amazing, well done to you and your son.

Louloulovesyou · 07/10/2019 10:16

That is so lovely. Lucky mummy, lucky little boy that you found each other ❤

TheTrollFairy · 07/10/2019 10:18

Ah this is lovely!
Just shows you what children can achieve when they have a parent who is there for them!

NcNcNcNcNcNcNc · 07/10/2019 10:18

I'm not crying...

How wonderful.

JoxerGoesToStuttgart · 07/10/2019 10:19

Ahh what a wee star! No doubt at all that your secure and loving home is what’s brought him on so well OP. It makes such a differences onwards and upwards for him! Hope he loves school x

Somebodystired · 07/10/2019 10:47

He really is a little star! He is the happiest little child I have ever known. He goes three days a week and walks in with a big smile on his face and always gives all the ladies a cuddle!

All of my worries about him have been completely unfounded. He is thriving and doing so so well.

OP posts:
TheSunAlsoRises · 07/10/2019 10:59

I remember your first post. Really happy for you.

nestisflown · 07/10/2019 11:09

Oh gosh I don't know why this made me emotional. I don't know you but I'm very happy for you and your son. I hope his worst days are behind him.

Igmum · 07/10/2019 11:18

❤️❤️❤️ love this

I'm not crying either...

PavlovaFaith · 07/10/2019 11:19

Fabulous news OP, it's not surprising you're gushing! He's having a wonderful time, thanks to you ThanksStar

ineednewhair · 07/10/2019 11:34

Love this post. V emotional and love that it's a happy ending for you both x

SummerInSun · 07/10/2019 12:20

We'll done him and we'll done you! Give yourselves both a big pat on the back. So, so lovely to hear.

Crispyturtle · 07/10/2019 12:35

I remember your first post, it was gorgeous & heart-warming, as is your update. I’m so pleased he’s doing well, and that you are happy together. What a nice post!

NoSauce · 07/10/2019 12:39

This is beautiful OP. You are an amazing mum to your boy, you’re both lucky to have each other ❤️

slipperywhensparticus · 07/10/2019 12:42

Aww how wonderful 💞

DonnaDarko · 07/10/2019 12:43

This is the loveliest update. I'm so happy for your family X

Bumfuzzled · 07/10/2019 12:44

Such a lovely post, I’m glad it’s all going so well for you and your DS Smile

Usernamqwerty · 07/10/2019 12:46

Awwwwww 😆. So happy for you xx

DramaAlpaca · 07/10/2019 12:48

I remember your thread. What a lovely update. So glad things are going well.

Cleverplayonwords · 07/10/2019 12:48

Oh wow! I remember your first post - it made me cry.
I'm so happy for you and your little guy. My son is a few months older than yours.

Thanks
EightWellies · 07/10/2019 12:50

Such a lovely post! Well done to your brave wee boy, and also to you for everything you've done to help him thrive, from another adoptive mum. Brilliant 😁.

Ridusofyourstupidity · 07/10/2019 12:50

Tears here too.

So happy for you!