Please tell me if I’m BU, my partner and I been together nearly 18 months now, we don’t live together but 15 mins away. He popped round last night, on his way out I asked if he would like to come round tomorrow (today) for dinner, I’m making XYZ. He says a ‘yeah yeah’ on his way out. We’ve been texting a bit all day, things like ‘when you come round we can do xyz’ at 3pm I texted him “ I’m in COOP, anything you want?’ He didn’t answer that, but instead asked me a question. At 5pm, I call him asking him where he is, he says he’s at home ‘in the middle of a game’ what’s up?’ I said weren’t you coming round today? I made dinner, he goes ‘ I honestly didn’t know we had plans today’ and then asked me what I’ve made for dinner. I just asked him how can he not have known we had plans when we’ve been talking about it? I then I just ended the conversation and hanged up.
How can he not have known we had plans ater all that texting, asking him if he wants anything from COOP and most importantly him saying yes to coming round? Let’s just say he genuinely didn’t know we had plans today which I don’t understand, why didn’t he just come round at 5pm when I called him? That’s what I would have done, if I forgot and I lived so close to the person. AIBU??