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To wear doc Martens?

102 replies

Christmaspanic24 · 26/09/2019 14:13

I'm 37, a mum of 3 with a profession job.
I've just bought a pair of the patent black 8 eye.

Is it a bit tragic, mutton dressed as lamb? Or fashionable freedom?
YABU - mutton dressed as lamb
YaNBU - go for it

OP posts:
EgremontRusset · 26/09/2019 20:38

I’ve just bought my first pair, Chelsea boots from their kids’ range that claim to be in softer leather. I’m hoping they go with black tights and a skirt at weekends / smart dress at work. I hope IANBU...

Mac47 · 26/09/2019 20:41

Late 40s , been wearing them for over 30 years. They would be prised off my dead, cold body, had they not been written into my funeral wishes!

ChiefClerkDrumknott · 26/09/2019 22:05

Mac47 I want to be buried in either my Docs or my jodphur boots Grin

ElspethFlashman · 26/09/2019 22:11

Is there any way you can tell from the product description which leather they are? Whether they're the softer ones?

I do remember some are brutal. I'm too old to be breaking in shoes tbh.

Fiveexclamationmarks · 28/09/2019 15:41

I've eyed up a pair in previous winters, but hesitated as wasn't sure if I could carry them off - took the plunge today after reading this thread, so thanks everyone!

Still a bit concerned they're not very 'me' though - boring dresser, mostly skinny jeans with long sleeve tshirts / jumpers and slouchy cardigans in plain colours in the winter. Not remotely cool or stylish. Doesn't help that I have large feet too Grin Hoping they'll look ok...

@ElspethFlashman I also wanted soft ones and took a look at the description and material sections on product pages, both referenced them being the softer leather. They definitely felt softer than others in the shop. Here's the link to mine in case it helps: www.drmartens.com/uk/en_gb/p/13512006

ElspethFlashman · 28/09/2019 16:02

Thanks for that, that's very helpful. I did a bit of searching and it's not in many styles at all, which is frustrating. Mind you, I noticed lots of the reviews of the Pascal still said "needs breaking in" so maybe it doesn't make that much difference to some feet.

ShinyMe · 28/09/2019 16:11

I used to wear them a lot as a student and then stopped. But at 47, I'm having foot problems and my podiatrist prescribed Docs. I've been wearing them for about 8 months now and my feet are loads better and I love the Docs.

I got the Pascal Virginia ones which are soft leather. Mine didn't need any breaking in at all, and felt really comfy from the start. I also have some gold glitter ones which are stiffer, but which also never hurt and didn't appear to need breaking in.

To wear doc Martens?
ShinyMe · 28/09/2019 16:14

I think there is the normal Pascal with tougher coated leather, and the Pascal Virginia with softer plain leather.

ShinyMe · 28/09/2019 16:15

I really want some of the fleece lined ones for winter.

MaryBerrysBomberJacket · 28/09/2019 16:17

Wear them. Teacher here and I wear them to work in winter. Best footwear ever.

ElspethFlashman · 28/09/2019 16:18

Yeah it was the Virginia's that those reviews were on, but in fairness I think it might be the shape of people's feet as much as anything as some had high arches and some found them tight across the toe box. And some had chafing at the heels (which I vividly remember from my teen DMs). So it seems to be the inners rather than the outers that people find hard to break in, iykwim?

Sadly, I want Chelsea boots cos I can't be dealing with the laces, being a lazy mare, and none of those seem to be in the Nappa/Virginia leather. 😫

Branleuse · 28/09/2019 16:19

im in my 40s and wearing my 8hole docs right now

Oysterbabe · 28/09/2019 16:19

Definitely go for it.
I mentioned to DH today that I fancied dying my blonde hair a sort of lavender colour. He is horrified at the idea.

ALittleBitAlexis · 28/09/2019 16:25

I'm 37 and just got my first pair last week - cherry red 1460s. They've taken some serious breaking in - thank heavens for Compeeds - but they're getting more comfortable and I can see them being really comfy soon. I don't think they look mutton at all.

Tippety · 28/09/2019 16:27

I bet they'll look fab on you :) just wear them in first (or newspaper inside them) for a while as they do hurt before becoming super comfy!

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 28/09/2019 16:28

I’ve been wearing them since 1984/5 (when I had to buy them from my grandmas men’s workwear catalogue). Nah. There is no age limit.

danmthatonestakentryanotheer · 28/09/2019 16:44

I'm in my 50's and love my docs...as does my daughter who intends to wear a pair under her dress if she gets married Grin

Lovestonap · 28/09/2019 16:46

Your fault OP, totally your fault. I was having a lovely Saturday chilling out and not spending anything, then this thread happened and I started browsing the dm website, and now I feel that my life will be incomplete until these are sitting in my wardrobe.... www.drmartens.com/uk/en_gb/p/22721600

Your fault!!!

Wiltshirelass2019 · 28/09/2019 16:56

They’re great shoes, wear what you want!

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 28/09/2019 16:58

Now my first pair ever was like this - www.drmartens.com/uk/en_gb/p/11822006

Lord they are expensive now!

cherrytree63 · 28/09/2019 17:08

I'm 56 and have three pairs, still got my Union Jack docs that I bought in my teens!

danmthatonestakentryanotheer · 28/09/2019 17:12

Mine are these
www.drmartens.com/uk/en_gb/p/24614400

0ellenbrody0 · 28/09/2019 17:14

I am nearly 50, a primary school teacher and have 8 pairs. It’s almost all I wear. I have different styles and colours for every occasion.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 28/09/2019 17:19

When I got my first job in the City I wore the shoes. My boss wasn’t impressed ‘I see you are wearing your WPC shoes today...’

TheRealShatParp · 28/09/2019 17:22

doc martens are defo not just for the youths, they suit any age! I wouldn’t think twice about wearing them at any age.