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Prince Harry - AIBU?

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barniee · 03/09/2019 14:13

Prince Harry saying "we can all do better" has really irked me- aibu?! He has every want and need satisfied while the majority of us and trying to do right by the environment whilst making ends meet. He is becoming very sanctimonious!

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NoTheresa · 10/09/2019 11:03

And (my fav) dowgrading her staff's christmas presents from Harrods puddings to Tesco. What a woman.
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SamanthaBrique · 10/09/2019 11:06

Well there is one way she's very frugal and that's when it comes to the paying of her staff! Salaries for the Royal Household are notoriously low.

LaMarschallin · 10/09/2019 11:07

Or is really just the crown jewels and regalia that she doesn't own?

In which case, I wouldn't say no to a go of, eg, one of the consort crowns.
A small one (don't want to give myself airs).

BertrandRussell · 10/09/2019 11:19

Her tax bill is pretty frugal too. Comparatively.

Rachelover60 · 10/09/2019 11:24

NoTheresa
And (my fav) dowgrading her staff's christmas presents from Harrods puddings to Tesco. What a woman.
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Aren't Tesco puddings good? I wouldn't know, prefer my own.

The Queen's staff can choose some china from a catalogue for their Christmas present; in time they build up quite a lot towards a dinner or tea service. The puddings are extras.

BertrandRussell · 10/09/2019 11:29

“The Queen's staff can choose some china from a catalogue for their Christmas present; in time they build up quite a lot towards a dinner or tea service“
The generosity or otherwise of that depends on the china!

NoTheresa · 10/09/2019 11:31

I was actually quoting someone else and indicating that part of the pm had made me laugh. The original poster’s point is surely the gulf between Harrods and Tesco, in terms of public perception!

NoTheresa · 10/09/2019 11:32

@Rachelover60

BertrandRussell · 10/09/2019 11:37

I’ve decided to stop giving you Harrods puddings and give you Tesco ones instead because Gregg Wallace said on Eat Well for Less that they are better”

Myimaginarycathasfleas · 10/09/2019 11:38

I don't think economy was the only reason Harrods lost HM's custom...

LaurieMarlow · 10/09/2019 11:38

I’m sure Tesco are fine.

But if I was used to getting a Harrods one I’d be a bit Hmm at the queens famous frugality.

LaurieMarlow · 10/09/2019 11:40

If she’d an issue with Harrods, switch to Fortnums or Selfridges.

But Tesco doesn’t exactly scream ‘luxurious Christmas pressie for valued employee’ now does it?

BertrandRussell · 10/09/2019 11:42

Yes, I would be surprised if much Harrod’s stuff crosses the threshold of Buck House these days. But Fortnum’s would have been a better swap surely?

LaurieMarlow · 10/09/2019 11:45

I doubt the Queen herself is eating Tesco puddings at Christmas.

Not that frugal.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 10/09/2019 11:45

About the second hand stuff, wasn't it Michael Heseltine who sneered at some family as being "the type who have to buy their own furniture"?

Apparently in these circles it's more usual to have handed down, priceless items which lasts for generations ... which means I'm pretty stuffed since I've just had new leather sofas delivered. They came from an ex-display warehouse too, so I really must be common as muck Grin

MouseInATelescope · 10/09/2019 11:47

My OH walked out on me after cheating with his ex. Transferred all the debt into my name I didn't know about, two kids asking ME all the questions, and I was suicidal. UC doesn't give me enough to live on, I'm trying to go back to uni to study nursing but need to go to college to get a flipping C GCSE in Maths, can't do that as can't afford the childcare. Get 15 hours a week, can't get a job around all the pick ups/drop offs of my kids.

Kids dad is out drinking every other night, booking holidays,taking his ex out for meals/nice hotels, off to Portugul next week (supposed to be HIS weekend) and getting promoted at work with all his new freedom.

Thanks for the advice Harry.

BertrandRussell · 10/09/2019 11:52

It was said about Michael Hesseltine by Alan Clarke....The complex hierarchy of the posh.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 10/09/2019 12:06

Ah - thanks, Bertrand; I thought Heseltine was involved in it somewhere, but believed it was him who'd said it

CatherineOfAragonsPrayerBook · 10/09/2019 12:14

Next time I'm passing Buck House I'll demand to be allowed in because, as a member of public, I own it!

Yes I was being sarcastic people!

It's the line they like to trot out though, that they have all this grace and favour at our tolerance the power really resides with us, and we all have a part in it, don't you see? They are just taking care of it all on our behalf and doing a good job of it too. ((God bless them!))

Question: Seeing as they do privately own a couple castles, as well as a few piles and large sums of inherited wealth, jewelry, land etc....why bother with the hassle of having to jump through all the hoops, put up with public intrusion, bad press etc etc? They could have a life of riley without all of that. I was looking at the line of succession the other day and there are umpteenth potentials with no hope of ever reaching the throne who live very charmed private lives. But what is the point of it all? I mean the other day Boris literally held the Queen to ransom and she had no choice but to give consent to prorouge parliament did she really? No power to desist at all. It's all just ceremonial rubber stamping nonsense.

I can imagine Meghan's frustration marrying into what she might have thought was a position of considerable prestige and power only to discover it isn't really and she might have had more influence as an up and coming actress (there was a story about her being considered for James Bond) with a substantial fan base. Personally I think she's missed her calling as a senators wife she'd be bloody brilliant as a (democratic) political spouse, where there is far more freedom to front edgy causes, and having brains and an opinion is an actual plus, and not met with disapproval, where you are not expected to take a backseat role to your husband, (avowed feminism is a grace not a flaw) and don't particularly have to live by what you preach as long as you seem ernest preaching it. She would have had a lot Hollywood good will, and been able to use her carefully curated contact base to real PR advantage.

Instead of trying to find a British husband she ought to have looked for an American one maybe one from the established political dynasties, one with real ambition.

She's fiercely clever and will naturally feel confined by having to take a quiet more self-effacing role like Sophies or Annes. It must be a shock to doscover that by and large the British public expect Royals to look pretty but modest, shake hands, support your spouse, cut charity ribbons and all preferably whilst keeping as quiet and unobtrusive as possible!

CatherineOfAragonsPrayerBook · 10/09/2019 12:19

Sorry for my spelling mistakes etc I have bad brain fog today. The joys of being ill.

joyfullittlehippo · 10/09/2019 12:20

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CatherineOfAragonsPrayerBook · 10/09/2019 12:23

Ahhh thanks joyfullittlehippoSmile

Puzzledandpissedoff · 10/09/2019 12:33

Next time I'm passing Buck House I'll demand to be allowed in

A small point, I know, but at one time anybody could go in to sign the visitor's book. I well recall the look on my American visitor's face when they crunched over the forecourt gravel, after merely asking at the police point on the gate

Sadly that all changed after 9/11 though ...

rashmiguhan · 10/09/2019 12:39

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