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AIBU?

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So wanting to know if THAT open invitation from Wishing was finally revoked yesterday. AIBU.

63 replies

Artemisia48 · 31/08/2019 22:23

I read almost all 1000 posts of that thread from last week, one of the most incredible AIBUs I’ve read. And i feel for the OP so much. Not in a Netflix series can’t wait for the last episode way (well a bit ) but i am so rooting for her, her story, the way someone with such a big heart and generosity ended up in such a stressful situation. I so want her to be left left in peace finally.. And the friends to realise how the dynamics of the group is just wrong and apologise to her. I don’t know her and yet I want to know how she
is doing, AIBU?

OP posts:
palahvah · 31/08/2019 22:31

YANBU!

SallyLovesCheese · 31/08/2019 22:36

There was already a thread on this that got deleted (I assume - MN couldn't "find it" the last few times I checked).

LtJudyHopps · 31/08/2019 22:49

I keep getting “oops we couldn’t find this page” when a thread has been deleted, I’d rather see the deletion message!

BishopFrownofStThigh · 31/08/2019 22:52

This'll get deleted! No we don't know.

Don't get @peardrop1 excited Wink

BlueBilledBeatboxingBird · 31/08/2019 22:57

The last thread went poof, presumably because it was a TAAT (although there was no deletion message to confirm). I imagine this will go the same way.

PapaShango · 31/08/2019 22:57

What. That was fake?

FinnBalorsAbs · 31/08/2019 22:58

But was it fake?

BlueBilledBeatboxingBird · 31/08/2019 23:00

The original thread still stands so no reason to believe it’s fake. The follow-up was deleted because it was a TAAT and not started by @wishingilivedonanisland.

BishopFrownofStThigh · 31/08/2019 23:02

S'ok, think she's going to update

OhioOhioOhio · 31/08/2019 23:04

Omg. I read that when it started. How come it became such a showstopper?

mrshadders · 31/08/2019 23:10

I've lost the thread! Can anyone link it please?

Starburst8 · 31/08/2019 23:16

For revoking an open invitation to stay? - www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3673152-for-revoking-an-open-invitation-to-stay

FurnitureAndBackgammon · 31/08/2019 23:17

Ahhh where’d the other one go??

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3673152-for-revoking-an-open-invitation-to-stay

Starburst8 · 31/08/2019 23:18

Just read it all. I can't believe the turn out 😯 if the OP was going to return she'll have to make new thread as someone wasted the last space to comment🙄

PegasusReturns · 31/08/2019 23:20

I want to know too!

SubisYodrethwhenLarping · 31/08/2019 23:27

If the original thread is still there then not a hairy handed creature then why delete TAAT?

DieBabySharkDie · 31/08/2019 23:30

YANBU! I was refreshing it over and over again! I hope Wishing sees this and updates us!

ReanimatedSGB · 31/08/2019 23:39

Don't think OP was a troll, just that she hasn't started a new thread so the board doesn't need a dozen going 'What happened NEXT'/Placemarking, where is OP, anyone got the popcorn, what's HAPPENING?'
OP, having worked out for herself over the course of the thread and the events, that her 'friend' is a malevolent, parasitic cunt, might be needing some time to deal with it. Or the friend, who sounds like she wants to punish OP and the other friends for having partners and DC and nice houses while malevolent cunt has none of these things, might have wigged out so much that OP doesn't want to post about it.

Or OP might have gone into labour.

pictish · 31/08/2019 23:46

That was some read. Hope it all went ok in the end.

squirrelnutkins1 · 31/08/2019 23:49

@wishingilivedonanisland

We need an update!!! What a twist!

kateandme · 01/09/2019 00:04

oh yes id like to know if op is ok

AdoreTheBeach · 01/09/2019 00:07

I really felt for the OP of that post. You just wanted to hear that the CF friend has gone to stay with the friend that offered and that the other friends weren’t pressuring OP anymore. Like others, have been checking.

ZiggyB · 01/09/2019 00:08

Just read it, what a bloody cheek. Shock

CFery to the nth degree! Poor OP

karenbokaren · 01/09/2019 00:09

Poor bloody love.

Crunchymum · 01/09/2019 00:15

Are you, she OP?

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