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AIBU?

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So wanting to know if THAT open invitation from Wishing was finally revoked yesterday. AIBU.

63 replies

Artemisia48 · 31/08/2019 22:23

I read almost all 1000 posts of that thread from last week, one of the most incredible AIBUs I’ve read. And i feel for the OP so much. Not in a Netflix series can’t wait for the last episode way (well a bit ) but i am so rooting for her, her story, the way someone with such a big heart and generosity ended up in such a stressful situation. I so want her to be left left in peace finally.. And the friends to realise how the dynamics of the group is just wrong and apologise to her. I don’t know her and yet I want to know how she
is doing, AIBU?

OP posts:
CTRLALTDELETED · 02/09/2019 21:27

I read the whole original thread.

For the love of God we need some closure. I will never find peace until I know what happened.

EdtheBear · 02/09/2019 23:11

I think CFer is still there! This must be her about 10 days into her stay.

NoSquirrels · 03/09/2019 09:43

I'd love to know too, but I gotta say, if I were the OP I would NOT come back and update - some posters were getting extremely carried away with accusing her (and her DH) of being some spineless idiot, as if her life only existed for their entertainment. She said all along she wasn't angry with her friend, and then everything got whipped up by some posters who were practically frothing!

I do hope though that the friend has departed, the guest room is now a toddler bedroom and the poor OP is getting some peace and quiet in her last few weeks of pregnancy. Flowers

WhatchaMaCalllit · 04/09/2019 15:45

I keep hoping that @WishingILivedOnAnIsland would come back, start a thread of their own and let us know that CF friend had gone on Friday morning last, they were in the throws of fixing up the guest room as their toddler bedroom, that they were about to welcome their newest addition to their family as #Wishing was in labour and all was going brilliantly for them all.

Perhaps no news is very good news.

I have been reading other threads that #Wishing has posted on recently (as in within the past few days) but nothing in relation to the Mutual Friends, Nice Mutual Friend or CF Friend.

caroloro · 06/09/2019 13:35

Has there been an update? I'm ridiculously invested in both this and the twittlebee wood saga!

KatherineJaneway · 06/09/2019 17:10

Not that I can see.

Upanddownandroundagain · 06/09/2019 17:21

A lot of people on the original thread told the OP that she didn’t need the stress as she was heavily pregnant.

Same people are nagging her for an update by PMs and new threads. Just leave her alone! She doesn’t need to update you like this is some soap opera!

MummytoCSJH · 06/09/2019 17:52

Me too. I didn't comment on the original thread but I followed it and it made me really angry!

Tink1990 · 06/09/2019 18:05

I hope shes gone! The whole thing was awful!

Ohmygoodnessreally · 10/09/2019 23:21

As I suspected/predicted .... there was never an update! Hmm

WhatchaMaCalllit · 11/09/2019 08:40

There couldn't be an update on the original thread as it reached capacity.
I don't know if @WishingILivedOnAnIsland is even aware that there are loads of MNetters wondering how she got on and if her CF sorry DF ever left.

I know she has been tagged in a few posts but she may not know that there is a whole thread, with plenty of space for her to post, wondering how she got on.

Motoko · 11/09/2019 09:05

I'm sure she does know, just doesn't want to update. It wouldn't surprise me if the CF is still there.

What gets me about that thread, is that if she'd listened to poster's warnings about letting her stay at all, and followed the advise, none of what followed, would have happened.

She had a cast iron reason to say it wasn't convenient this time, it wasn't as if she'd have been lying, so I can't understand her reluctance to just say it was too close to the impending birth.

SophieGiroux · 25/09/2019 23:27

Please update @wishingilivedonanisland

Have you had your baby yet? Hope all went/goes well Smile

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