My DP and I are getting married next summer. We are having a small wedding with 20 guests (mostly family), followed by a big party that evening.
I was married 9 years ago, obviously now divorced. This is DP's first marriage. Around three quarters of my guests would have been at my first wedding, and would have given us a gift (we asked for dollars towards our honeymoon).
We own our home and have no reason to ask for any home stuff, so again a gift of money towards our honeymoon would be preferable.
I'm sure that DP's family and friends and those at our wedding and wedding breakfast would be happy to contribute, but I'm worried about asking for that from people who have not only previously given me a wedding gift, but are also only invited to the party in the evening. It just seems dead cheeky to me.
Am I over thinking this / being mental? DP and I can't agree.