How is that too white or too bridal?! It's actually called 'soft blush' and looks pinky-beige when you zoom in on it. It's not long either, which most brides' dresses are.
I would also say it depends on the colour of the shawl and your accessories. But I'd totally go for it, @Jadefeather7!
When I got married, a gazillion years ago, I was pretty sure that the vicar wouldn't confuse me with any of my guests, and that my DHtobe wouldn't end up marrying the wrong woman!