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to Ask your terrible advice from the 1990’s - early 2000s

472 replies

MyKingdomForACaramel · 08/08/2019 21:41

Aibu to ask you to cast your mind back and give the advice you would have in the late 90’s

Here’s mine...

Want to lose weight? Eat what you want during the week and take recreational drugs at the weekend, it’s like the 5:2

Have frizzy hair! Not to worry, some John Frieda, and iron, and a brown paper bag will sort it.

Worried your dp has been faffing you around and cheating? If he says @you were on a break” all is ok

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Mammyloveswine · 13/08/2019 21:51

@Namechangerextraordinaire1 Grinmini pump!! How funny!! Can totally imagine that pitch on dragons den 🤣

BrightYellowDaffodil · 13/08/2019 22:06

Ah, those were the days.

Red Levels (they had to be actual Red Levels and not knock-offs from Simpsons because otherwise they wouldn't have the red tag, and that was just too square for words)

Using the word 'square'.

Stocking up in Boots - the 'cool minimalist' brand of Kyusu or the Global Collection?

Shopping in Tammy Girl and Snob. New Look was, well, new.

Arguing with your best mate as to whether Kevin Costner or Christian Slater were the more fanciable.

Athena poster of a topless bloke staring at a baby.

Love beads. In the days when that meant long strings of tiny beads.

Just 17, especially the problem page.

More magazine, for obvious reasons.

Using hair wax to shape the front strands of your hair so it framed your face.

Going clubbing in a babydoll nightie, dancing like a loon to Backstreet Boys "Everybody" and Faithless' "Insomnia"

Dodgy gigs in grotty cellars where perves sidled up behind you. One one notable occasion I kept my massive coat on for the entire gig in a desperate attempt to create a barrier.

Kickers, with the green and red soles.

The Sweater Shop.

Bath balls that disintegrated into a slimy disc at the bottom of the bath. See also, shaped 'novelty' soaps, and various sickly Body Shop perfumes.

Crushed velvet. So much crushed velvet.

Lots of gothic wafting around with voile curtains and candles. A fire risk if ever there was one.

Hooch. Ah, the 6th form leaver's boat trip. So. Much. Hooch.

And, if you lived in or around Reading, Saffron Moon and Strawberry Fields.

BrightYellowDaffodil · 13/08/2019 22:08

Oh, I quite forgot mood rings and velvet chokers.

danni0509 · 13/08/2019 22:12

@Franklymydearidontgiveadam
I always seem to love the past... Even 2007 to me was easier then than it is now...

Glad I'm not the only one who thinks like that.

RunningNinja79 · 13/08/2019 22:19

@Mammyloveswine
Anyone else remember getting the bus to Icon and Diva in York?
We called it the vengabus.

I had been going out in town well before Icon and Diva opened so it was a bit later for me. Started off in Diva then to Icon for a bit and back to Diva for the end of the night.

Back in the day for me it started at Brubakers, onto Harrys then Railway King/Edwards, Merlins and McMillans, Brewers Fayre (totally miss that place - Flares is shite), Yates and finally Silks/Gallery.

Good times

danni0509 · 13/08/2019 22:22

My first set of straighteners had to have water put in the like an iron, but it was a step up from the iron and ironing board.

Same! Grin

RunningNinja79 · 13/08/2019 22:23

Reading this thread, I feel like I was the only person not to have taken drugs regularly. Feel like I missed out. I think at 40 with 3 DCs and a full time job its a bit late now. Probably a good thing.

I was that tight person who refused to pay the pound for my coat. Or if you did it was often forgot at the end of the night and you had to go back for it the next day to pick it up from the cleaners and my god how different did the place look during the daylight hours.

I want to go back

Thurmanmurman · 13/08/2019 23:03

Smoking fags aged 15 in the woods with your mates and worried about your mum getting a whiff? Simply spray you hands with impulse body spray and she’ll be none the wiser.
Can’t be arsed washing your hair? Apply talc, job done!
What to wear, trousers or skirt? Just go for both you’ll look so cool.
😂

allfurcoatnoknickers · 14/08/2019 01:17

Not brushing your hair and wafting around in dyed thermal cardigans and maxi skirts paired with a hip belt will definitely make you look like Sienna Miller.

You won't look like a homeless hobbit in drag. AT ALL, you'll be perfectly boho chic Hmm.

Paintingtheroseswhite · 14/08/2019 11:03

Ah, nightclub nostalgia, Halifax was my stamping ground,

Coliseum and Main Street if you were feeling mainstream

The Zoo Bar if you were feeling grungey (me most of the time) followed by a £2 mystery meat 3am curry in Lord St Tandoori or similar

The Acapulco Club (the Acca) if you were skint and desperate

Happy Days

Rarfy · 14/08/2019 12:47

Just walking around a market which reminded me of smiley face purses.

managedmis · 14/08/2019 14:48

LOVE these!

RunningNinja79 · 14/08/2019 21:53

For some reason last night while listing the route of pubs in York I went to I said Brewers Fayre. Should have said Brewers Arms.

absopugginglutely · 14/08/2019 22:02

@RunningNinja79 I feel the same re: drugs there was a poster of Leah Betts on the wall of my school (the girl who died from taking E) and it put me off drugs for life.

31RueCambon · 14/08/2019 22:08

I remember I couldn't just pull my hair back off my face, I used to boof it up (a few inches) because I thought it looked weird if I just pulled it back.

31RueCambon · 14/08/2019 22:08

This was late 80s

MazDazzle · 14/08/2019 23:17

Want to know if you and your boyf will last the distance? Take a multichoice tick box quiz in a magazine!

To be sussed is a must, but sex under 16 is illegal! Thank you for that one J17. I didn’t follow the advice.

Buy Bliss, Sugar, More, J17 and then progress to Cosmo for sex tips and THE best freebies... make up, accessories and summer reads!

Before you pop that last pill, look at your watch to make sure you have enough time to get high and come down again before the dreaded Sunday morning shift at your local corner shop. 5am was the cut off point!

And speaking of pill popping, if you forget to take your contraceptive pill take 5 at once. Thankfully, this actually worked for me!

MazDazzle · 14/08/2019 23:19

Dye the hair at the nape of your neck dark brown, and bleach the rest blonde. So cool!

If anyone asks why your pupils are dilated, blame that new wild mixer, Red Bull.

Rainbowknickers · 15/08/2019 01:43

Short skirt that covered nothing
Top that only just covered my nips-in fact they clung on for dear life
Push-up bra
Over the knee socks which I’d have to stop every 3 steps to pull up
Black ankle boots/doc martins
Love beads
Baker boy hat
With hennaed hair (red-which faded in a few days but while it was on my head stank of cow shite)
For some reason I wore a ring that looked like an eyeball and another with ying yang (bought with my first wages)
Black lipstick/nail polish/eyeliner
Wild musk perfume by coty

I must have looked a right bloody state!

ghostyslovesheets · 15/08/2019 03:56

Plastic spiked head bands that dug into your scalp

Yy to the speed diet!

Silk cut mild in the week marly red for weekends

Shag nasty hair was a walk of shame style choice!

Rarfy · 15/08/2019 06:54

I will never forget the Leah Betts video we watched at school. Put me off completely. Apart from the odd joint of course but that was a short lived phase.

Namechangerextraordinaire1 · 15/08/2019 10:59

@mammyloveswine i know Grin i used to take it with me on a night out

Sundancer77 · 15/08/2019 11:06

The speed diet..yes..! Either ‘Bombing’ it before going in the club..you had to time it right, if you could walk in just as you were ‘Coming up’ it was the best feeling ever 😬That or snuggling it in down your knee high boots or in the little pocket bit of a wonder bra 😆
Club wise..I was from Manchester, anyone else? Peak time 94-96 ish? Hacienda (just..!) Bowlers ( old school piano house nights & never ever booze sold) The Boardwalk, Dry bar, Home, Sankeys etc etc..god, what I would do to relive those years..it all went v v fast

Sundancer77 · 15/08/2019 11:08

*Smuggling

Oh and the god damn awful comedown Sunday roasts with all the family (grandparents included) around the table, when you couldn’t eat and felt like dying
*Also stares nostalgically into the distance and sighs

ElizaDee · 15/08/2019 11:28

I couldn't eat a roast for years because of that. It's only recently in the last few years I've started to really enjoy or fancy one.

It always seemed like my mum did lamb (greasier than chicken or beef) after a particularly big night, like she did it on purpose Grin