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To think this woman isn't coming back for her cat?

87 replies

darkriver19886 · 31/07/2019 23:24

In October a friend of mine put out a call on Facebook for someone to look after a cat for a "couple of weeks"

It sounds like the woman concerned had to move for whatever reason and she said she would pay more than the cat's upkeep.

I took the lovely cat on called Pepper. Her son paid me £30 when she was dropped off and when the woman came to visit she paid me another £20.

I sent her regular updates and pictures of the cat. I haven't had a response since April. It's just dawned me that she hasn't even seen my messages.

Am I wrong to think that this woman isn't coming back? And I have strangely acquired a cat.

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darkriver19886 · 31/07/2019 23:25

Picture of pepper.

To think this woman isn't coming back for her cat?
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madcatladyforever · 31/07/2019 23:26

I wouldn't give the cat back, it's your cat now Grin

MuddyMoose · 31/07/2019 23:27

What a shitty thing for this woman to do. She's quite clearly written the cat off - if she loved it that much she would of taken it back by now or at least been enquiring about it often / keeping you up to date.
I'd imagine Pepper is now settled with you - congratulations on your new permanent pet Grin 🐱

Cheby · 31/07/2019 23:27

I can’t see the picture. But it sounds like congratulations on your new feline family member are in order!

madcatladyforever · 31/07/2019 23:27

OMG she's gorgeous definitely keep her!

MuddyMoose · 31/07/2019 23:27

Picture has just loaded - Pepper is beautiful 😊

MissPinkCakeyBun · 31/07/2019 23:28

Cat-napped ❤️ she is fab and looks like she is yours. Is she chipped?

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 31/07/2019 23:28

Yup, you are peppers human now

Ringsender2 · 31/07/2019 23:28

Pretty!

Wallywobbles · 31/07/2019 23:29

What does pepper think?

PunkTrumpet · 31/07/2019 23:29

Pepper is lovely. She's also your cat now.

ViserionTheDragon · 31/07/2019 23:29

That's awful! Have you tried caling her? Are you in a position to look after her permanently?

Pepper is adorable 😊.

KC225 · 31/07/2019 23:29

Pepper is gorgeous. Will you keep her?

PunkTrumpet · 31/07/2019 23:30

Look at the adoration on that little face!

darkriver19886 · 31/07/2019 23:30

More cute cat spam.
I don't understand it really. I would hate to do that to a cat.

To think this woman isn't coming back for her cat?
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bingbongnoise · 31/07/2019 23:30

@darkriver19886

The owner left Pepper with you in OCTOBER?

Ummm I don't think she is coming back.

The plus side is you have a beautiful kitteh! Grin

How weird just abandoning your cat though. Awful. Sad

darkriver19886 · 31/07/2019 23:32

Yes, I am going to keep her. I have had the worst year and she has really gotten me through it. I don't even know if she is spayed. I felt awful as I haven't let her out in case something happened to her.

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MuddyMoose · 31/07/2019 23:35

Sounds like you were both there for each other when you both needed it the most. She really is beautiful & looks so fluffy 😊Hope
Maybe pop to your local vet who will be able to check her over & perhaps give you some ideas on certain things (spayed / possible age) - not needed as such as she looks very content & well looked after.

Mummyoftwo91 · 31/07/2019 23:39

Aw op she's a beauty, sounds like you both needed each other

Raspberrytruffle · 31/07/2019 23:42

Absolutely beautiful, get her chip changed and tell the vets shes been abandoned which she literally has. I'm so pleased shes got you loving her.

Treaclesweet · 31/07/2019 23:42

Some things are meant to be! She's gorgeous congratulations Flowers

YesItsMeIDontCare · 31/07/2019 23:43

Oh what a pretty girl 🥰. I'd say she clearly loves her new mum too!

Pop over to "the Litter Tray", loads of kitty advice and pictures. There's a general thread running at the moment - the title is something about Pilling Your Cat in 100 Steps.

UrsulaPandress · 31/07/2019 23:44

Congratulations Pepper.

Raspberrytruffle · 31/07/2019 23:45

I dont know how people can so easily discard there pets, my cats and dogs are my children

To think this woman isn't coming back for her cat?
To think this woman isn't coming back for her cat?
ImpossibleGirl · 31/07/2019 23:47

She's a beauty!

What are the arrangements re her insurance? Do you have her date of birth (or even just month of), medical history, inoculation records, etc.?

We took in (on permanent loan) my best mate's 2 when they moved abroad on the understanding that they set up a standing order for food, paid insurance and vet bills, etc. They were only due to be gone a year or two. That was 6 years ago.

The older girl has since gone over the rainbow bridge (they paid that bill - she was over 20 years old when she came to us), the younger one is still with us, the standing order is the same, we now pay the insurance and they top up if she needs extra vet care. They're unlikely now to move back and we have acquired a permanent pet that they still pay towards.

They were happy the old girl had a relaxed retirement home with us that they couldn't have otherwise guaranteed. Old girl's ashes are in the drawer for them to bury/ scatter when they do move home if they want to. If they don't, then they'll go in her favourite sunny spot of our garden, but not till they decide.

They visit when they're in the country (us as well as the cat). If they ever do move back and want the cat back, it'll break our hearts but she is theirs and will go back to them. Younger cat's chip is still registered to them as her owners.

If Pepper's previous slaves have abandoned her to your care, then make sure you have all the necessary details to be able to insure her and if they don't want to pay for her upkeep, make sure you change her chip details to you. Use the chip details as a bargaining tool if you need to - they'll be responsible for the cost of her care if she's hurt off your premises.

Hope you and Pepper have a long, loving, playful and happy life together.

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