Update - relationship with boss

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Hi all! I posted a little while back about relationship with boss and where it was going.

Things have escalated and he has made it clear he is interested. Things are fine in work, nothing untoward, it is the contact outside of work.

Up until now this has been a distraction and bit of fun, now it is becoming a bit real, I dont know what to do. I dont want to ruin my career, my marriage, plus he is also risking alot. Pls help!

No good can come of this OP, rinse and repeat.

Everyone is attracted to people.

You need to separate the issues. If he didn't exist, would you want to continue in your marriage? If not, leave.

Re him: It's statistically unlikely any relationship would end in happy ever after. It's likely not to last and then you have all the fallout at work, plus the strong possibility that one of you will be pining for the other.

Say in fact you fall desperately in love, get married and all that jazz, I'd give it two years until he's pissing you off leaving his filthy socks on the bathroom floor and pestering you for a shag you no longer want, while you look after your kids single handed and fantasize about Rob from Accounts who is oh so incredibly sexy.

It's your choice.

Oh, and if it all goes tits up at work, he has all the power.

That bloody abyss - if you both tripped at the edge of it, it's quite possible that his penis could accidentally slip into your vagina and who could blame you? I'm sure hubby would be understanding.

@ContactLight they made a film of your passionate near-affair!

What's wrong with you OP?
Your married ffs

Get over it.
Ask your husband what you should do. Maybe he'll realise how incredibly selfish and ridiculous his wife is and fuck off to something better. With the kids, where they can all be in a stable home with stable people who don't throw their whole life under a train for a bit of attention.

OP - surely, SURELY, you have read enough threads on here to know the damage that you could do.
Think.

What an attention seeker the OP is, craving the boss's attention and then coming in here pretending to be confused. Your boss is a dickhead and you are an object to him.

Go for it life is too short

Life is too short.

Her kids childhood are shorter. Will be a lovely memory when they get older. Remembering the time it turned out mum was shagging her boss behind dads back.

We would all love a memory like that.

lol - less of an abyss (sorry to let you all down) - more of a crack in the pavement

The reality went more like this: Boss made a pass at me - I told him it wasn't one of his better ideas. The End.

Just shag him . Life's too dull not to create massive drama just because you are bored. What's the worst that can happen?

Even though you have no respect for anyone else at least drag up a little respect for yourself.