Update - relationship with boss

[user1471514421]

Hi all! I posted a little while back about relationship with boss and where it was going.

Things have escalated and he has made it clear he is interested. Things are fine in work, nothing untoward, it is the contact outside of work.

Up until now this has been a distraction and bit of fun, now it is becoming a bit real, I dont know what to do. I dont want to ruin my career, my marriage, plus he is also risking alot. Pls help!

Please Advice you ask....start looking for a new job, stop having an affair, if unhappy in your marriage leave!!!!

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What sort of help do you want?

Do your husband a favour and go off with your boss who wants an affair with a married woman. You two selfish twits deserve each other. Your husband might be sad in the short term, but in the long run he will realise he had a lucky escape.

She doesn't want help.

She's had plenty of that on her other threads.

Just another drama llama. Move on, nothing to see here...

Stop, think, plan. You need to exit from an unhappy relationship and sort yourself out before you can make a good judgement about the future. Dating your boss even if you were both single is not a good idea!

You should come and have a chat with my two DC about how their dad's affair with his boss has worked out for them.

According to their dad everyone is happy with him being happy. I see a different story. The tears, heartbreak, counselling, sleepless nights, asking ehy DD wanta to live so far away etc...

Even if you dont care about your DH surely your childrens happiness and mental well being come first?

Why would you want to be with someone who thinks it's ok to behave that way around their employees (just read some of the other thread), let alone married ones. You won't have been the first, or the last.

Work on your marriage, or end it, but don't shit where you eat.

I'm not going to lie, you're already halfway to fucking things up with your Husband if you're on here telling the world that your boss has made his feelings clear.

Either you're in your marriage because you want to be there and are actively participating in the act of marriage, or you've disengaged and need to leave before you start shitting all over other people's lives.

I have very little sympathy and kindness for people who actively seek out drama like this and fuck up the lives of those around them. Far less for those who deliberately hurt the people they once-upon-a-time loved enough to marry. Get your act together and stop posting shite like this.

I have been in this situation. Teetering on the edge. Also my boss.

I didn't. We didn't. We could have done, the opportunity was there, but we were both too aware of the abyss that could open up underneath our feet.

Don't do it. Just don't. Your life will be irretrievably changed.

Give his wife a ring, hopefully she'll sort you out

Oh my god, no way!!!!

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You hard-hearted harpies (autocorrect demanded "herpes"), this is love's young dream, right here.

Like Romeo & Juliet, or Anthony & Cleopatra, or Benson & Hedges.

I'm totally gripped by the romance between these starre-crost lovers and will hang here with bated breath for the next instalment.❤🍿

Oh wait actually I might go clean my skirting boards.

You have children. Life isn’t about putting your desires first.

FFS not this again. I remember your last thread. Fuck him or don't fuck him, enough of the faux angst. But if you have the slightest bit of self respect, deal with your marriage first.

He will fuck you, and than fuck your off OP and will be shagging your work best mate within a month.

If you want to fuck your boss, nothings going to stop you.

But please for goodness sake address your marriage first and end it if that’s what you want! Don’t stay married to someone when you’re feeling like this about them.

@Magpie18 hahaha if your not from Up north I will eat my hat!!!!

Grow up.

Divorce your husband first and then pursue the relationship .. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Then you can do as you please ..

No need to hurt your husband with an affair .. tell him you fancy your boss and you are letting him go .. don’t be selfish .. you can have your fun but respect & allow your husband to move on to find someone deserving .. lots of women are looking for good men ..

Tell your boss that you are splitting up with DH - I bet he won’t find you so interesting then.

Exactly!

Leave your husband, change jobs, continue romance

Ooooh, PLEASE keep us updated, this is sooooooooooo exciting. I am so excited by all this, that I felt a little pee come out.

Thank you for sharing this with us @user1471514421

We are all sitting here with baited breath, waiting for the next instalment. I hope you post an entire other thread about it actually, because this fascinating, amazing, wonderful, edge-of-the-seat shit deserves a new thread each day!!!