would you send your kids to private school if money wasn’t a problem?
We did. DC1 started his primary school education in a private school, DC2 followed him there.
We have recently switched to a state school.
The private school strongly suggested that we remove DC1 from their school because he has high functioning ASD and they couldn’t (or didn’t want to) support his needs. His teacher told us that DC1 had made no progress at all this academic year, he’d plateaued, would be unable to cope with the academic demands of the next year, would fail his GCSE’s etc etc.
As a consequence, we moved both DC to a local state primary school about half way through this school year.
Since then, DC1 has been moved up a year (he was educated in the year below at the private school). He’s getting the support he needs for his SEN. His end of year report says he’s meeting academic expectations for the year group.
I can see for myself from his homework etc that his reading & writing have improved dramatically since he started at the new school. The maths homework he’s bring home is (understandably) more advanced, but he’s able to understand it and complete it with very little help.
DC2 has joined the state school’s Reception class. Again, we’ve seen rapid, big, improvements in reading, writing, more challenging maths homework being sent home than in the private school.
Basically, DC2 is getting pushed more to achieve his potential now. The feeling we have is that the teacher DC2 had in the private school was letting DC2 get away with not putting much effort in academically.
So, academically speaking, this state primary school seems better than the private school we left. The main difference we’re seeing is the “extras” - the private school had a bigger range of sports, a bigger range of extra curricular clubs, did more school shows / class assemblies.
But we’d chosen to go private because of the perception that they’d be better at the academic side of teaching rather than because of the extras.
So, overall, having seen the quality of education in the state school we moved to, I’ve been feeling rather that we’ve paid the private school a lot of money for no good reason.