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Glastonbury slightly tragic after a certain age

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monkeytimesthree · 29/06/2019 16:36

That's it.

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Procrastination4 · 29/06/2019 16:57

(Not that camping in a field or having to use a portaloo more than once at an event would appeal to me at any age!

Ascreed · 29/06/2019 16:59

Yabu, it's live music it doesn't have an upper age barrier and festivals are perfect for older people who will be working, have responsibilities and can't go to live gigs all the time to get a massive fill of all different types of music in one handy weekend!

DustyMaiden · 29/06/2019 17:00

I'll Accept infirmity or death preventing people doing what they enjoy. Not some crazy notion that fun is only for the young.

Redinthefacegirl · 29/06/2019 17:01

YABVU
Why on earth would you think that?
Camping and music seem fairly non age specific pastimes.

StoorieHoose · 29/06/2019 17:01

The Cure are headlining this weekend and I'm pretty sure that most of their fans are late 40s so should they class themselves too.old to go?

FizzyGreenWater · 29/06/2019 17:02

Gosh OP never knew.

Can you elaborate because there are many situations which are a. fun and b. probably have more younger people than older people doing them

Is dancing ok? Only inside after a certain age maybe?

How about sitting round drinking and chatting in the sun? Does it depend where you do it? Or is it the live music happening at the same time which makes it tragic OR is it the being in the vicinity of mainly younger people? Can I do the above at 50-ish if I make sure I cna't hear music at the same time OR see anything with a rainbow on it?

AND WHAT ABOUT HEADBANDS

Tiredemma · 29/06/2019 17:02

I used to think like this ( god knows why) but after losing my my mom ( she was 57) my attitude has very much changed to " do whatever the fuck makes you happy".

You really do only live once

Iliterallycantthinkofanythingq · 29/06/2019 17:03

YABVU and bloody miserable! Glad I don't think like you. Bet you're not much fun!

BumandChips · 29/06/2019 17:04

I didn’t realise listening to live music was only for young people.

I also didn’t realise that once you become a mum you shouldn’t go out, ever. Or have fun.

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 29/06/2019 17:04

Why, do you get to certain age and stop going enjoying camping, enjoying music and attending festivals Hmm

YABU

Peitho · 29/06/2019 17:05

Ageist nonsense.

People with strict ideas about what is and isn't age appropriate behaviour in adults are always complete bores.

AguerosAngel · 29/06/2019 17:05

YABU!

You’re never to old to enjoy live music and dancing! DH & I are late 40’s and go to music events when we can, our favourite is a Trance festival that’s on in Holland at the moment, what’s not to like about great music and dancing on the beach?

We’d have been there this year but MIL is away and couldn’t look after DS for us!

ghostyslovesheets · 29/06/2019 17:08

OP is either too young to understand that being really really old (IE over 45!) doesn't make you past it or old before their time and sniffy/tutty due to being aware of their wasted youth!

Anyway OP you are being a bit of a cock really - people like music and dancing and sunshine - age is not an issue - unless you really want it to be.

RedPanda2 · 29/06/2019 17:08

Oh dear OP. Don't your nets need washing? Don't want the neighbours to talk

LaurieMarlow · 29/06/2019 17:08

So this threads panning out well for you OP Grin

Judashascomeintosomemoney · 29/06/2019 17:08

WTF? What a weirdo.

Ellapaella · 29/06/2019 17:08

I feel sorry for you op. Life is too short to not do things you enjoy for fear of what other people might think of you. I've been doing music festivals my whole life, I'm 40 now and continue to go. My 70 year old parents still go too. If we are 'tragic' then I'm fine with that. Many music festivals are actually geared toward families anyway.

monkeytimesthree · 29/06/2019 17:09

Certainly not criticising anyone older wanting to have fun, but not in the least bit jealous of camping/ queuing for an hour to get a drink of water etc having worked all week and looked after three kids. Someone down thread said it already - it's not really about the music is it? For a certain demographic it has become a fashionable another must do fixture with boutique camping and helicopters etc etc whilst pretending to be 25 again. What a load of bollocks. I'm sure there are people who have been going since time began and fair play but not sure that applies to everyone.

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Allhailthesun · 29/06/2019 17:09

Yeah.After a certain age it’s just one of those middle class things on a bucket list - London marathon tick, Glastonbury tick, climbing a famous mountain, Edinburgh fringe ....

Valanice1989 · 29/06/2019 17:09

Why? I've never been to Glastonbury but it would never enter my head to think older people were tragic for doing so. It's a music festival. A lot of the acts have older fans, anyway.

LauderSyme · 29/06/2019 17:09

Sneering at other people's perfectly harmless choices slightly tragic after a certain age.

There you go OP, fixed your thread title for you.

MyWifeNKidz · 29/06/2019 17:09

Nonsense!

I’m not into festivals at all. I hard Glasto the one time I went in my early 20s. But if that’s your bag, why not go on enjoying it for as long as you have breath? Are you seriously suggesting life music is only for kids? Behave!

BumandChips · 29/06/2019 17:09

Bit miserable really aren’t you OP.

MyWifeNKidz · 29/06/2019 17:09

hated

MyWifeNKidz · 29/06/2019 17:10

live music

Gah

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