Guy I'm seeing is friends with my enemy ..aibu to be mad?

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I have been really great friends with a woman for over 10 years.
Met the guy I'm seeing through her.
Anyway her jealousy took over and she turned nasty on me and we have fallen out.
She is still friends with the guy I'm seeing and she's tagging him (and the other group of friends ) about going away for a weekend.
Obviously I'm not invited.
He is replying on fb all nicey nice
He is zero loyalty to me does he..would you be mad?

Is school out already?

Your 'enemy?'

Are you part of the Marvelverse? No? Then grow up.

You are 'seeing him' you don't own him. You can't decide who he can be friends with or not. It is because of this 'enemy' you even met him. Grow up!

If someone is talking crap about someone I was seeing /sleeping with then I couldn't be civil with them.

How long have you been dating the guy?

Just because she's not your friend anymore, doesn't mean he can't still be friends with her. I'd watch your behaviour, it sounds just a teeny weeny bit controlling.

Enemy

He knew her before you. His loyalty sounds fine.

Anyway her jealousy took over jealousy over what?
and she turned nasty on me I'm what way?
and we have fallen out what a tually happened?

See if I was him I'd want the ehoel story including from a long term friend rather just a woman I've been on a few dates with

Not got your £300 back then?

She doesn't want me seeing him

He knew her before he dated you.

Who the fuck has "enemies"? You're not a superhero.

Or possibly she doesn't want him seeing you.

My partner has a female friend who despised me for (what he and I agree is) a non reason. It does make it tricky that sometimes I don't go out if she'll be there and vice versa, but I have to appreciate that she was his friend first and it's not up to me to choose his friends, just like it's not up to her to tell him I'm not good enough etc

But then you don’t want him seeing her...?

Well I wouldn’t be ditching long standing friends over someone I’d been seeing for a short while. I’d probably bring it up with them but I wouldn’t shun them over it.

What exactly happened to make her your ‘enemy’?

If you really hate this woman, then this might be a reason not to date the guy. But you don’t have the right to be mad at him for who he’s friends with.

You should make her like totally jealous, you could like post photos of you kissing and accidentally tag her, get dressed up looking gorge and "bump" into her with your arms all over your beau, and then you must get married and invite her and smile smugly at her all day. You should totally do that.

Me and her have been really good friends.
Then she started telling him lies about me to cause trouble.
He showed me the texts.
Her attitude towards me changed.
Putting me down/saying I could do with putting weight on,I wore too much make up.
He told me a few years ago she tried it on with him.
I genuinely think she's angry at me for dating him.
I want to make peace with her for a quiet life but she's just being vile.

I don't hate her.
It's her who has changed towards me since I started seeing him.
Told me he wasn't the one for me,and I wasn't special and he was still messaging other women.

Are you the one who was meant to be going to a concert?

The only way to solve this is with a duel.

Throw down your gauntlet and arrange a pistol shoot out at sunset on the last Sabbath of the summer. Show no fear. Show no mercy.

Personally OP I think you would be better off focusing on your GCSE/A levels, boyfriends will come and go, your education right now should be your priority

If you can't answer without being arsey don't bother.
Yeah

Oh hunz, this bitch is obvs after your man. She’s just jelus tho, you kno he’s your babez. Just catch up with Love Island and chill, ye?