To want to LTB because DH insists on putting chilli on everything.

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Raw chilli.

So if I make spaghetti Bolognese, he'll insist on chopping up a raw chilli to sprinkle on top.

If I make chilli, he'll chop up an extra one.

Tonight he's complaining that there is no chilli to chop up with his meatballs and pasta.

It really gets on my tits. It feels like he's complaining about my food by default. It's ungrateful.

He'll also walk over and put extra salt in it.

He has a go at DC if they don't like what's for dinner - but this is the exact same behaviour.

Permission to rub chilli and salt in his face.

My DP is like this. He smokes and drinks and has lost some sense of smell and taste as a result.
He cooked chilli a while back, and it was far too hot for me to eat. Plus he can't manage to cook for two, it's always 2/3 days worth of meals which irritates me too.
Then he cooked spaghetti bolognaise. Great, I thought. But he'd put chilli in thst too so I couldn't eat it.
I'm a vegetarian, and the Quorn mince is not cheap, so when I see 4 bags of the mince, a whole pack of spaghetti and half a bag of rice used up and I'm having to cook seperately for myself I get really pissed off.
And he uses the chilli flakes in the grinder so why he can't just use it on his own is beyond me.

I put chilli on most of my foods intact I grown my own super hot chillis. I enjoy the flavour. I don’t bitch at those who need a coffee all day every day leave my chilli alone 🤷🏻‍♀️