To tell bride to be her fiancé is a bisexual cheat.

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Ex friends.

Would you tell the bride that her fiancé is bisexual and not only that, he cheats on her at any given opportunity. Is a sex pest. Constantly messages other women and men. From friendly chat to pictures of his penis.

He has done this to numerous people including myself, and had bragged about sleeping with another woman. He's also messed around with men.

Do I tell the bride before she marries him? I've always thought I wouldn't get involved especially after our friendship fell apart. But now it's closer to the wedding I feel like she should know.

Everyone is entitled to their own view RedKite Yours isn't the only POV that matters.

or at least some mandatory workplace diversity training
What, you think someone should be 'trained' out of their personal relationship boundaries? Sounds rather coersive to me.

so, we have, on the feminist boards, a strong cry to protect lesbians. To say that lesbians are entitled to have a sexual preference, that if they want to have sex with women who have women's bodies, then they should be allowed to have sex with who ever they want.

Then here, you are saying that a woman who says she does not want to have sex with someone who also has sex with a man, is not allowed that sexual preference?

I do not want a partner who has also had sex with a man, I am heterosexual, and want a heterosexual partner.

I am really happy for you to have whatever sexual preference you want, and to help fight for your right to do that. But I am allowed to have a preference!

Please don't feel sorry for me, @RedKite89. I don't need any training or any updating of my views. I have no ill will or view of homosexual or bisexual people that they are lesser. I have a personal preference that my husband is attracted to me and only me, and that he is honest about his past. I'm lucky enough that I have that.

I wouldn't- no good will come of it. You'll land in hot water and she will still marry him

I would want to know.

Could you set up an anonymous email and send it to her that way?