To think this fb post is so wrong??

[brellas]

Just scrolling through as you do...plenty of Father's Day posts. Then I come across this one. And I don't know if I'm being petty or not....asked dh and he just shrugged his shoulders and didn't know...

So this person I'm friends with on fb has been with her bf about 7/8 months now I'd say.

Her post was about how amazing her bf was as a step father to her 5 year old boy. That's fine.

But the picture that she posted was of her bf holding the child in one arm, they are both smiling. In the other arm he's holding a cup which says 'I heart anal'. The cup is deliberately being held up to be in the picture.

Why? I don't get it, it's not funny. Not to me anyway. Aibu to think this is quite wrong and disturbing?

I know it's not my business but who the hall would post a picture like this? Or even take this picture in the first place?

Yanbu that's fucked up

I suppose you initially need to be the sort of person who would buy such a cup- that in itself is baffling

That's so wrong, and I'm pretty liberal...

😳 I genuinely had to reread your post! How horrendously embarrassing

I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks so! It's been playing on my mind ever since i saw it!

Just reread 3 times to trying and work out who Ana was

You sure it wasn't I Heart canal.

Are we sure that if we spin the cup round a bit further it doesn't say 'I heart analogue'? If not then YADNBU

My first thought was a love of canals too.

@confussedmisfit no I did think maybe read it wrong after I saw it so searched for it again.....and the cup most definitely says 'I HEART ANAL' in capitals....lovely

I heart canals/analogy /analysis /analogies 😂

Sorry def fucked up.

Maybe there is something else on the cup...but even so, the fact it's being held up with a child in the picture just made me feel abit

I think the joke was that he wouldn't be a 'dad' again anytime soon OP. Probably implying that babies are hard work, exhausting etc and you dont get babies from anal.

Poor taste though. Very poor.

I thought I wasn't easily offended by I can't imagine why anyone would take that photo or post it on Facebook.

No chance that one of them is called Lana and the photo has been flipped?!

Yuck! I suppose the thought is if she loves anal then she’s not going to have anymore kids etc etc? Still. Which type of person buys a mug like this? Just who?!?

Well now I've gone and googled "I heart anal mug" just to see whether these monstrosities are really on sale.

And now they're going to be popping up in my adverts every time I go online, no doubt.

Also how do I delete my search history?

Thank you for your service Gino It means the rest of us don't need to check

Good grief 🤢🤮🤢🤮

I’d be more worried that she’s known him 7/8 months and he’s her son’s stepfather tbh.

Ahh yes that's probably it with the no more kids idea! But I agree, extremely poor taste. Glad Mumsnet agrees with me!

@Lllot5 yeah that's sort of why I always read her posts in the first place. I don't know her very well but she jumped from one relationship to the next. He moved in after 3 months I have dcs from a previous relationship and know how important introducing a new partner is.

Think it's a case of social media being more important than actual life. But each to their own I suppose

Oh Fuxache.

Why do people have no bloody boundaries anymore.

LOL at someone being bombarded by ads for these dreadful mugs from now on.

This is one of those posts where I muse: does it mean he loves a bit of pegging, or does it mean that he loves to perform anal on his partner. Or does it mean both! I'm a bit confused.

Some things should be kept to themselves, though. Not everyone needs to know your business..