Monsters in law?

[Monsteres]

AIBU to be annoyed that the PIL have decided to "pop in" uninvited!? Got a 3 month old have PND and this isn't just a cup of tea pop in they've driven 12 hours and will have to stay in the house with us, theyve brung their 3 dogs and are always rude to me when visiting (having digs about my weight, the house, our dogs, my cooking etc) and I just don't want them here! We said we'd let them know when we could make a free weekend so they could come visit but they've just decided to come up anywauly, meaning I've had to cancel all our plans for the weekend now, I'm absolutely raging! Is it just the PND or is this out of order?

That’s appallingly rude!

I hope you didn’t rearrange any plans.

That’s out of order. Say no.

You don’t want them there and there is a reason.... there are multiple reasons.

ineedaholiday I do usually send her a message on messenger (and ask if there's anything she needs - milk, bread?)

Single - why do you drop in unannounced though? Can’t you see how annoying and inconvenient that could be?

No, she's very sociable and gets bored on her own all day. I get a smile, a cup of tea and asked to mind the toddler while she gets a shower.