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Mother will serve you now

30 replies

ladyinka · 08/06/2019 19:55

I work in finance, large bling corporate office. Recently new vending machines were installed in the canteens and I was really pleased as they’re contactless (I never have cash on me so finally can buy something for the 3pm sugar cravings!) and they actually stock nice things.

So far so good. But some marketing ‘genius’ decided to call the vending machines ‘Mother’. And when you pay, a breezy digital display flashes ‘Mother will serve you now’ or something along these lines.

AIBU to be annoyed every time this comes up? As a mother, it reads pretty reductive - surely we do far more than serve snacks to all and sundry? And don’t even get me started on subtle messaging it conveys to fellow professional females in still quite a male industry...

Or am I just being too precious here?

OP posts:
iMatter · 08/06/2019 20:01

Good grief

That's awful

Cringingly bad

PenelopeHolmes · 08/06/2019 20:08

Bizarre but funny, I'd say. In an ironic sort of way. No one calls themselves "Mother" these days do they? It wouldn't upset me and I am a mother who seems to spend a lot of my day dispensing meals and snacks to hungry teenagers.

Myusernameismud · 08/06/2019 20:10

Hmm, I couldn't get myself worked up about this. It's quite common in our house for the person who pours the tea to say 'shall I be mother?' as they pick up the teapot. It's a silly old habit, that both mine and DH's parents do and we have picked up. I'm not offended, and actually I see part of role as a mother as being the nurturer.

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 08/06/2019 20:14

Jeezy. Are you sure you are not living in a dystopian sci fi movie?

Amanduh · 08/06/2019 20:14

Get a grip.

Treaclesweet · 08/06/2019 20:16

I would find that annoying and demeaning. Casual sexism everywhere in AI, I think there was an article about it quite recently.

dreygrey · 08/06/2019 20:20

I wouldn't use the machines, it's an appalling name.

mimibunz · 08/06/2019 20:23

Reminds me of Alien where Mother was what they called headquarters back on Earth.

BooseysMom · 08/06/2019 20:23

That's quite bizarre in this day and age. Not offensive but a bit peculiar esp coming from a vending machine Hmm

CrispbuttyNo1 · 08/06/2019 20:24

It's the name of thr company. I really couldnt get worked up over this at all.

Needcoffeecoffeecoffee · 08/06/2019 20:26

It doesn't make me cross but creeps me out. I feel it mother may start thinking for itself soon

Be careful op!

PositiveVibez · 08/06/2019 20:27

I don't think you need to get a grip at all as previously suggested.

I think it is casual sexism and it would piss me off. I wouldn't use that machine as it would annoy me.

Durgasarrow · 08/06/2019 20:27

noooooooooo

grumiosmum · 08/06/2019 20:30

YANBU.

Everyday sexism. Absolutely.

Notabedofroses · 08/06/2019 20:31

Casual sexism - I would make a complaint.

Why the fuck is this ever acceptable?

Father will serve you now - sounds very dubious

VisiblyOver25 · 08/06/2019 20:32

Bloody hell that's awful.

stepup123 · 08/06/2019 20:35

It would annoy me too op

ReapersHowler · 08/06/2019 20:41

This would fit well on Reddits a boring dystopia sub. I think it's creepy.

53rdWay · 08/06/2019 20:43

Ick. And yes, isn’t ‘Mother’ the ship’s computer in the Alien films?

llangennith · 08/06/2019 20:44

I think it is casual sexism and it would piss me off. I wouldn't use that machine as it would annoy me.

This

omione · 08/06/2019 20:46

All over the world at this very moment people are dying !

herculepoirot2 · 08/06/2019 20:47

🤢

Becathourus · 08/06/2019 20:50

.... I'd probably find it funny tbh....

Sparklingbrook · 08/06/2019 20:50

It's the name of the company

www.thisismother.com/about-us

BeeFarseer · 08/06/2019 20:53

@Omione, yes, they are, and isn't it marvellous that we as humans have capacity to care about multiple issues at the same time!

That would annoy me too, OP.

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