Yesterday I saw my school bully

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At a funeral, he was a nasty little arsehole at school. I took an overdose over the constant shit he gave me. I always imagined meeting him and being as cool as a cucumber and pretend i didn’t even know who he was.

I was a nervous wreck, I was sweating, shaking I felt sick. I’m 43 years old this happened when I was 15.

Now I’m out of there there are a thousand things I wish I had said. I feel like a fucking idiot.

I was bullied very badly at school. Truly, the best response is to put it aside, get on with your life and enjoy any successes that come your way.

And I wouldn't be going to a school reunion. In the evening. Potential minetrap.

I know this is an old thread of mine so apologies. I’ve just been sent a Facebook friend request by said bully.

Why the fuck. Do some people have zero memories?

My mother is besties with the teacher that bullied me at school!
She also stops and talks about me with every single bully I’ve ever had

I went nc with her so what she says to them is utter bullshit but I don’t care

What makes it worse is she knows they are my ex bullies

Tough pill to swallow

My dd’s bullies are all stuck in dead end jobs/pregnant/in prison/druggies or dead now

No way would I give any of them the time of day