Wedding dilemma

[SheeshKebab]

Not really an AIBU but posting for traffic 😉

So we're planning our wedding. I have a relative who can't fly due to health reasons but our dream is to get married in Italy. She is also technically my bridesmaid, I asked her 2 years ago when we got engaged but since then, there's been family arguments and I don't think she really likes me🤨so maybe she won't even want to be a bridesmaid anymore, I haven't asked her cause she's very difficult to talk to.

I said to my fiance that we can only get married in Italy if it was just us and our parents. It's really unfair to invite the rest of our families knowing that she can't come. He says it's our day and we should do whatever we want.

What do we do?

I agree with your fiancé. You can’t compromise your whole day for the sake of one person who you don’t even think likes you!

Oh sorry, DRTFT - Yay! Have a lovely wedding!

Why are you adapting your wedding day for someone you don't like?

Do What you want.

What if you have it here and she doesn't come?!

We let one relative stop us getting married abroad. We still regret it hugely and it makes me quite sad. Don’t let this be you. Please do it your way.

Italy was my dream too. A family member couldn't come so we got married at home. Our wedding day is not what we wanted and I wish we'd put ourselves first. If I could go back I would slope to Italy and have a party at home for everyone else.