Aibu to tell my dp that I would leave him if he shaved his head?

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He has very long hair and has said that if he were to cut it it would be all off.

Aibu to say that in that case I would leave him?

I suppose YANBU if you are that shallow that your relationship means nothing to you.

Back in the real world, ridiculous.

Yes.

Very!

You can say what you like. Just as he can shave his head if he likes.

Would you leave him if he had chemo?

As long as you're prepared for him to leave you if you cut, dye or perm your hair.

Yabu

Aww that is really horrible.
My ex DP went bald with alopaecia, he had long hair before.
It never changed the way I felt about him, I wasn't that shallow.

Well you don’t have to find it attractive but you can’t tell him what he can/can’t do with his hair. I presume this is a crap joke? Or your marriage is shit anyway as no one normal would leave solely because of a haircut. Back in the real world you could just tell you find his long half sexy.

Half = hair

If someone said something like that to me, I would probably be far more keen to do it.

My DH grew a beard. His decision but I couldn’t bring myself to kiss him. He soon shaved it off of his own accord

Mine has short hair but always wants to shave it off. The truth is he hasn’t aged well and would look awful bald but he’s got all this blonde, surfy hair which hides it quite well. I’m dreading the day he does it but I can’t say anything as it would hurt him.

Mmmm......my dp does know that i cant stand beards. Absolutely hate them. For that reason he doesn't grow one. I think the bigger issue here is if he knows you're not a fan of bald heads - out of choice - and he still does it.

Dh was shaven when we met, hair grew LONG! beautiful curls omg I had hair ENVY!! The day he got dragged off a quad by getting stuck in a bush () he came home and to the barber's. His hair, his choice but what a bloody waste!
Yabu to dictate to dh.

If you would do this, you're clearly not that into him. Is it worth continuing with the relationship?

I wouldn't fit it attractive at all but I wouldn't leave him over it, he'd likely grow it back when he realised it put me off him anyway

You can leave someone for whatever reason you like. It would make you a shallow arsehole though.

DH wouldn't shave his moustache for me. I hated it but loved him, so I let it go. Just like he never left me when I dyed my hair blonde, which he hated. (To be fair it wasn't a good look on me).

What if he loses his hair as he ages? Will you leave him then for being old?

Ridiculous, it’s just hair.

I don't mind baldness, but I hate shaved heads. I wouldn't leave someone over a shaved head, but I'd make my dislike of it known.

What happens when male pattern baldness kicks in?

At least you’ll be giving him due warning with that ultimatum, I suppose.

New poster, slightly goady. Ok

Life has a habit of throwing curve balls OP.

You would be a controlling arsehole. How would you like it if he dictated what you did with your hair and then threatened to leave you over it?

Does that mean he gets to leave you if you put on weight?