Aibu to tell my dp that I would leave him if he shaved his head?

[TennisBoi]

He has very long hair and has said that if he were to cut it it would be all off.

Aibu to say that in that case I would leave him?

It's up to him, not you. YABU.

As long as you'd be okay with him leaving you because you've gained weight, or you wore that dress he doesn't like, or you put too much/not enough make up on.

If you're okay with your relationship only lasting based on the fact that neither of you ever change your physical appearance then crack on!

I'm really hoping this is a joke.

Of course you are

Someone posted something similar a while back and got a similar response - yes you're being completely unreasonable and also selfish and shallow

If roles were reversed and you were a man saying he'd leave his wife if she cut her hair there would be uproar on here and calls for her to leave the bastard

As a side note my DH shaved his hair off and he actually looks way better and I wish i had encouraged him to do it before!

So you'd be happy for him to keep the long bits at the back and sides when male pattern baldness hits? Awesome. He'll look like a Klingon Warrior - you could have a Star Trek themed wedding if he doesn't kick you into touch in favour of somebody that recognises his right to do as he pleases with his own body and hair

Is this a reverse? What hairstyle has he picked out for you, OP?

This is so similar to another post- I think it was because the OH wanted to shave his head and get a head tattoo- she was worried OH would look like a thug.

Been on MN for too long. Anyway OP - yes you are being U.