Partner falls asleep on the sofa at 8 every night

[bloodymiserable91]

I'm just miserable - we're both 27, no children. I feel like we just never have interesting conversations anymore. We don't have sex (maybe once or twice a month). And every single night he's asleep by half 7/8, snoring next to me on the sofa. No health conditions and got up at a normal hour for work so I don't know why he's like this. I think if this is us now god only knows what we would be like with children. I'm just terrified to leave, and reading some threads on here it feels like so many men are abusive and horrible and I think, is falling asleep on the sofa THAT bad? I just don't know what to do, honestly.

Let him waste his life if he must, but not yours. This is no way for you to be, come on! Please get away before kids come into the picture

Yes it's the bloody weed as pp's have said... And your ultimatum proved fruitless... at 27 - you've got a veeeeerrry long slooooow road ahead with him if this is how it is now
I think you know there's more to love and life and relationships...

Clubbercised Like it was always the kebab and not the 12 pints

Janetforpresident - maybe older greyer and fatter will become desirable attributes one day fat fingers crossed

Obviously just give your druggie boyfriend the boot before you end up with a bun in the oven. Fairly obvious isn't it.

I had a boyfriend like this for 4 years. He got duller and duller and less motivated and quite frankly turned into a boring bastard. I'm aware it's 'only' weed and not crack but it really does affect people's state of mind. Don't waste a second more on this. He will not change. Take it from me (ex still doing it 8 years later from what I hear.)

It was hard to leave but the best thing I ever did