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To request people don’t use my toilet at house viewings?

474 replies

Diamondeye · 28/05/2019 17:11

Just that really ...

As obviously it has been used today and it’s grossed me out.

OP posts:
itbemay1 · 28/05/2019 18:43

That might of been me, caught short viewing a house, didn't sit on the seat as it looked minging... sorry I left it upSmile

fc301 · 28/05/2019 18:44

There is literally no evidence that they 'toileted' in your toilet though? They could have just lifted the lid to inspect the state of the pan - perfectly valid. In a hard water area with no regular cleaning the bowl goes brown from the water line down - grim. I'd probably look for this reason.
YABmassivelyU

itbemay1 · 28/05/2019 18:44

I didn't close the blinds though, that wasn't me!

fc301 · 28/05/2019 18:45

Might be worth logging it with 101 though 🤣🤣🤣

RomanyQueen1 · 28/05/2019 18:46

Oh dear, a toilet ornament. Not for using, i've heard it all now.

Silvercatowner · 28/05/2019 18:46

I am entitled to have my standards of hygiene in my own house. I think that isnt ‘ damn odd and precious'

I would presume that you were equally weird and awkward in other aspects, and given how challenging buying a house can be I wouldn't touch it with a bargepole.

PortiaCastis · 28/05/2019 18:46

This is hilarious.
GrinGrinGrin
You need Prince Charles in your house as he apparently takes own his loo seat on his travels, so on the rightmove blurb for your house get the agent to state viewers are requested to bring their own throne seats in case they need a wee

ZoomingCockerel · 28/05/2019 18:46

If you're horrified at someone using a toilet, there's something wrong with you. Honestly.

RandomComment · 28/05/2019 18:49

1st world problem fh

pixielott76 · 28/05/2019 18:53

Does it really matter??

Alsohuman · 28/05/2019 18:55

Jesus, how precious can people get?

IceCreamFace · 28/05/2019 18:56

I am entitled to have my standards of hygiene in my own house. I think that isnt ‘ damn odd and precious'

Of course you are entitled to make up (damn odd and precious rules) about your own home but everyone else is entitled to consider them odd and precious and they'll probably be put off buying your home because you'll come across as the kind of person who is awkward to deal with and that's the last person you want to buy a house from.

LondonJax · 28/05/2019 18:58

I've done as a few people have mentioned here and flushed the loo, turned on the taps etc when I've been on a viewing. And I always put the loo lid up when I do that, so that I can see it flushes properly and also to check the state of the loo bowl. We went to one place with the loo lid left down (which is what I always do), when we lifted the lid the bowl was just yellow and limescaled. I don't think it had seen a brush for weeks.

So they could have just done a quick check of the toilet (like opening wardrobe doors or kitchen cupboards to check the doors are OK and the space is adequate). Just because the lid's up doesn't mean it's been used.

Microwaveableteapot · 28/05/2019 18:58

I'm intruiged as to how the "you can only pee sitting down" poster knows her rules are being adhered to...

(Spoiler, they're not. None of the men who visit your house are doing this.)

EdWinchester · 28/05/2019 18:59

I would've had to clean the loo immediately. I am weird about the loos in our house.

I always clean the downstairs loo after visitors, especially as blokes/boys pissing standing up always leave piss in random places. Yuck.

MiniEggAddiction · 28/05/2019 19:00

I kind of get that people have all kind of eccentricities and phobias etc. I'm just amazed that people don't realise it's odd. Do you never have guests at your home? (Especially kids who need the loo every half hour and can't aim). How on earth do you get through the day?

Itssosunny · 28/05/2019 19:01

OP, we had the same thing and it was the agent who used the toilet.

Honeybee85 · 28/05/2019 19:02

Uhm IceCreamFace, I am not selling my home GrinGrinGrin.

Oh and by the way, I did sell my old home a few months ago in less then 2 weeks, despite being ‘akward to deal with’ Grin

Allhailthesun · 28/05/2019 19:02

Come on. People can be disgusting. Some don’t wash their hands, some leave “ mess” and I don’t want the smell of someone else’s shit in my house cheers. bleurgh. I don’t want to clean the toilet after someone I don’t know has used it either ( I used to be a chambermaid and cleaned the toilets daily so it’s not that I’m squeamish).

It’s my personal loo and not a public one. And I don’t care if that makes me uptight actually.

VerbenaGirl · 28/05/2019 19:03

No problem with toilet use, but the blind thing is strange...

Yeahsurewhatever · 28/05/2019 19:04

People are being mean. I'd be grossed out. I'm not sure you can ask though. But maybe do open house or something so it's all in one block. Then clean the toilet after.

MiniEggAddiction · 28/05/2019 19:04

I don’t want the smell of someone else’s shit in my house cheers. bleurgh. I don’t want to clean the toilet after someone I don’t know has used it either

Suck it up buttercup! Or don't ever have any guests or workman to your home. What in earth do you expect people to do if they need the loo?

Itssosunny · 28/05/2019 19:05

Men should pee sitting not only because of hygiene buy also because of the personal health. If they do standing they don't empty their bladder completely and this can lead to the problems with prostate in later age.

Roussette · 28/05/2019 19:05

I think people who don't like toilets being used probably boil wash their towels every day and don't ever answer the door.

ALLMYSmellySocks · 28/05/2019 19:07

OH MY GOD! The madness of MN and toilets! If someone is in your home and they need the loo of course you bloody let them go. If they do a poo open the bloody window and leave it a few minutes, if you can't stand the idea of cleaning a loo after an unknown bum has sat on it then buy a house in the middle of nowhere and never have guests!