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to be annoyed that the Transformers movie has a 12A certificate, when my 5 year old DS is Transformers mad?

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daisyandbabybootoo · 20/07/2007 12:58

He really wants to see it at the cinema...how do I tell him that he can't?

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daisyandbabybootoo · 21/07/2007 10:13

thanks speccy...I hadn't thought of that one!

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Budababe · 21/07/2007 10:17

I took DS (5) to Pirates of the Caribbean 3 against my better judgement but he was fine. Have seen trailers of the Transformers one and no way! Looks very violent.

magnolia1 · 21/07/2007 10:36

Dh is desperate to see Transformers but will have to go alone as none of ours are going!! They want to but way to violent. D1 is almost 12 and I would be ok for her but not my nearly 8 year olds.

Dottydot · 21/07/2007 10:48

It's all so subjective. I saw the Transformers trailer the other night and am definite that it's too told for ds1 - but it's a shame 'cos he adores transformers toys. Not sure who the target audience is for this film - I suppose 12/13 and upwards. Ds1 can watch Star Wars and is obsessed, but I won't let him watch Raiders 'cos I think it's much more scary - maybe because in a way it's more 'real' than Star Wars.

Can't wait for him to be a few years older 'cos he really wants to watch Buffy - I've got the whole lot and we named him after one of the characters so I'm looking forward to many happy Buffy watching hours!!

Dottydot · 21/07/2007 10:49

too told??! Too old (hangover = bad typing...)

cornsilk · 21/07/2007 11:01

Dottydot - how old do you think chn should be to watch Buffy? (serious question - am a fan - look forward to watching with my ds too!)

Dottydot · 21/07/2007 11:03

I think probably about 10 - we'll see when he gets there!

He thinks I'm being incredibly mean because I've not let him watch the 3rd Star Wars film yet (i.e. number 3 - one of the new ones) because it's a certificate 12. He's bartered me down to him watching it when he's 8...

KerryMumbledore · 21/07/2007 11:07

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cornsilk · 21/07/2007 11:08

There are only a few really nasty bits in that film tho' - Anakin on fire is gross - could you skip past those bits and let him watch the rest?

cornsilk · 21/07/2007 11:10

Well my ds 2 was newborn as I watched the whole series whilst BF at ridiculous hours of the morning!

cornsilk · 21/07/2007 11:10

Watching buffy Imean!

Dottydot · 21/07/2007 11:11

Cornsilk - I haven't watched it, and that's the other bit of the bargain - I have to watch it first to see (that's our rule with any PG films as well!).

I think he could probably cope with most of Buffy series 1 but I'd feel really bad if they gave him nightmares. I just miss watching them - pre-children they were pretty much on all day every day - I was utterly obsessed and I miss Sunnydale!

KerryMumbledore · 21/07/2007 11:11

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magnolia1 · 21/07/2007 11:35

What on earth has being intellectual got to do with it

I am highly intellectual but shit my pants when watching a horror movie

KerryMumbledore · 21/07/2007 11:39

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Dottydot · 21/07/2007 11:41

I think this can work in the opposite way though to be honest - I would worry that ds1 would think too much about stuff he's seen and it might therefore scare him more. Whereas ds2 (bless him) isn't as thought process-y as ds1 and most things just drift over him (or he drifts over them!).

magnolia1 · 21/07/2007 11:42

What nonsense. I have a much superior thinking that any child but as I said still shit my pants at some scary movies!

I would actually say a child who's thought processing is above average would be affected more rather than less by a scary/violent movie.

magnolia1 · 21/07/2007 11:42

X post exactly Dotty

Dottydot · 21/07/2007 11:42

Yes, exactly Magnolia!

Dottydot · 21/07/2007 11:42

ooh - crossed again!

KerryMumbledore · 21/07/2007 11:43

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magnolia1 · 21/07/2007 11:43
Grin
magnolia1 · 21/07/2007 11:44

But telling the difference does not make it less scary. I know it's not real but it's still scary

EricGallagher · 21/07/2007 11:44

What a load of old shite KerryMum.

Your child is intelligent so he won't affected by a film which is meant for children way older than him?

Seriously?

KerryMumbledore · 21/07/2007 11:45

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