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Does anyone else get “fixated” on a celebrity?

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Crazycatlady10 · 12/05/2019 17:01

Does anyone else get weirdly intense crushes on celebrities? I’m not even sure if crush is the right word but I go through phases where I watch everything an actors ever been in, read their interviews, that kind of thing. I’ve used the word fixated in the title because I can’t really think of how to describe it.

At the moment it’s Richard Armitage, it isn’t even a fancying him thing I just really really like him as a person. I’ve watched every interview, downloaded audio books, watched some utterly terrible films just because he’s in them..

Does anyone else do this? My friends never seem to (I don’t really talk about it though) and I was wondering if IABU to ask if other people do this too..? I mean obviously most celebrities have a fan base so it can’t be that unusual. I just feel a bit odd, like nobody else does this. It’s happens a few times a year with different people, I’m very fickle Grin

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jarhead123 · 14/05/2019 21:47

I do. I have to force myself to go cold turkey.

My most recent was Hugh Jackman.

aLilNonnyMouse · 14/05/2019 21:51

I'm the same, but I'm not quite as fickle. I tend to stay fixated for several years at a time. 8 years and counting with my current obsession.

TweeBee · 14/05/2019 22:07

Chris Martin from Coldplay for me!Wink

dontticklethetoad · 14/05/2019 22:15

@NeitherNowtNorSummat01 re Tom Holland, have you seen the lipsync battle when he does Rihanna's 'Umbrella'?

I was fixated on Michael C Hall for ages.

LennyBelardo · 14/05/2019 22:18

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MrsDesireeCarthorse · 14/05/2019 22:21

I have a massive crush on Louis Jourdan. He's dead but god he was so beautiful and he worked for the French Resistance. Adoration!!!! Swoon!

lovelylondonsky · 14/05/2019 22:22

I spent most of last year fixated on Lin Manuel Miranda (Hamilton creator).

This year it's Freddie Mercury and it's far worse! I watch his interviews and performances daily.

So glad that other people do this.

LennyBelardo · 14/05/2019 22:23

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Dhalandchips · 14/05/2019 22:23

I've been in love with the same bass player since 1982!

Crazycatlady10 · 14/05/2019 22:28

Isn’t Hugh jackman married?

The thing that makes me go off them is when they’re married/have kids. I feel like a home wrecker then 😂

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peachgreen · 14/05/2019 22:35

I used to. The last one was a theatre actor who I then met - we got on really well and he's now one of my closest friends. But all semblance of my crush / obsession completely dissipated almost immediately because, of course, he's just a normal person. It hasn't happened since, partly because I met my now DH and partly because, I think, meeting my friend made me realise that the objects of my previous obsessions are just normal people.

Although I'd still do just about anything for Tessa Thompson. Grin

WeepingWillowWeepingWino · 14/05/2019 22:39

The gay thing doesn’t bother me (obviously) but weirdly I agree on the married front which is why my Mads crush has never gone that far. Though actually that doesn’t stop me where Chris Packham is concerned, not that he’s actually married but you know what I mean. Maybe that’s why? Maybe that bit of paper is forming some kind of mental block?

I’ve realised that I’ve not done much research on Diego Luna. Need to get on to that.

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PollyEsterblouse · 14/05/2019 23:14

@ScottishBadger No way! Same here: both Hader and Mulaney. Didn't expect to find either of those names in here. Class acts, both of them: you have great taste in celebrities. Grin

Have you seen Documentary Now! by Bill Hader, Fred Armisen & Seth Myers? Some episodes are on YouTube: it's brilliant.

Crazycatlady10 · 14/05/2019 23:19

I mean I just spent half an hour watching a Richard Armitage interview and he is just so lovely he could secretly be a lizard in disguise and I wouldn’t care.

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PurpleFlower1983 · 14/05/2019 23:38

Yes I have a massive crush on Nikolaj Coster-Waldau (Jaime Lannister from Game of Thrones) and have done since the series started.

Crazycatlady10 · 14/05/2019 23:56

Look him up. He’s got a lovely deep voice and is a cracking actor. The man who launched a (several hundred) thousand women into hopeless crushes..

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TheTitOfTheIceberg · 15/05/2019 12:48

I've been in love with the same bass player since 1982!

John Taylor?

I've done similar to PP with historical events/people too. I had a fixation on Anne Boleyn and the events that led to her execution and researched as much as I could about it. Not particularly bothered about the rest of Henry's wives, just Anne.

dustarr73 · 15/05/2019 16:33

@dontticklethetoad I love the lipsync battle

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Crazycatlady10 · 15/05/2019 16:44

Omg that lip sync battle 😂 I think he seems like a sweetie, I love when he keeps accidentally spoiling all the marvel movies

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Two4Tuesday · 15/05/2019 17:00

Hallelujah, I've found my people!
I always thought there was something wrong with me for doing this Blush

I went through a Richard Armitage phase too, circa "Robin Hood" era. I also have "North and South" on DVD WinkAnd went through a very brief fandango with Benedict Cumberbatch, but that wore off quickly. Have also been in love with various members of Duran Duran over the years.

I moved on to Eddie Redmayne for a good while. Met him once after a play in London - he's a thoroughly nice chap.

Current obsession flirtation is with Jesse Williams from "Grey's Anatomy" 😍

Crazycatlady10 · 15/05/2019 17:11

Richard Armitage in head to toe leather was the only good thing about the absolute shit show that is Robin Hood 😂

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dustarr73 · 15/05/2019 20:37
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ScottishBadger · 15/05/2019 21:36

@PollyEsterblouse You too! Thanks for the heads up! I'm off to scout now. Looks like Hader was on Seth Meyers last night according to my YouTube notification too....