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Would you call out someone learing at your dd

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Holibobsing · 23/04/2019 22:45

I felt the need to and did today but as I have never seen anyone publically do it before , I did feel like I'd lost my shit somewhat. It was the heat of the moment thing, instinctive and in split second I'd turned and shouted what the hell do you think you're doing.

A man in his late 30s / early 40s walking past making faces and gestures as if he found DD very attractive. She is 12! Tall but does not look over 16.

He apologized probably realising I was her mother, but I was so angry, I told him to fuck of out of here . Not typical language for me. I'd got the feeling it was not unusual for him to do this to young girls.

Basically w.w.y.d?

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Deadringer · 25/04/2019 21:30

It's disgusting and men should be called out on it every single time. Even if your dd was 18, men in their 30/40s should stay the fuck away, especially in the street. So what if they find a female attractive, why feel the need to articulate it? Why can't they keep their thoughts and feelings to themselves and have a bit of respect? I mean who the fuck cares what they think?

ThanosSavedMe · 25/04/2019 21:45

Reminds me my 12 yr old dd has started to get attention so far only from other teen boys, if a grown man said anything I hope I have the strength to give him hell.

Sunonthepatio · 26/04/2019 07:17

It has really stuck in my mind that when I was 15 I babysat a neighbour in the next street and a man in the street tried to get me to accept a lift in his car when I left. He was driving alongside me insisting and almost agitated and cross when I refused. It was scary at the time.

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