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I don't tell him that I know, right?

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DaisiesAndCompasses · 20/04/2019 17:01

I'm fairly sure my engagement ring has been delivered in the post today... it's an unbranded box but it's got a postal label on it with "antique diamond ring" and some value details on it.

DP was doing the gardening so I signed for it and have put it in the hallway as I normally would. He doesn't seem to have noticed the label. Do I say something?

(I'm fairly sure it's for me Grin)

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IWriteCode · 14/05/2019 09:54

Oh what a lovely thread!!!! Can't wait for the update!

IceBearRocks · 14/05/2019 09:54

Excited

StreetDreams · 14/05/2019 09:55

Crikey, he made you wait for it, OP, didn't he?

EnglishBreakfastTea · 14/05/2019 09:56

Ah good luck OP! So exciting!

bebeboeuf · 14/05/2019 09:59

Exciting!

Otterseatpuffinsdontthey · 14/05/2019 09:59

Q

legolimb · 14/05/2019 10:02

What news OP?

asdou · 14/05/2019 10:03

Oh bloody hell! Propose man! Don't keep us all waiting!

Pieceofpurplesky · 14/05/2019 10:04

Another one shamelessly placemarkinh

livin · 14/05/2019 10:05

Shamelessly placemarking.

Ninkaninus · 14/05/2019 10:09

Ohhhh how lovely! ❤️❤️❤️

(I picked my engagement ring so I didn’t get to have a surprise, but that was fair enough because I am very picky)

SomewhereInbetween1 · 14/05/2019 10:11

Shamelessly placemarking ❤️

bessie84 · 14/05/2019 10:14

eeekkk.

ahem, placemarking. how lovely.

theemmadilemma · 14/05/2019 10:14

Totes placemarking for this.

holliethehousewife · 14/05/2019 10:15

Don't you dare spoil it for yourself! How exciting!

Excited101 · 14/05/2019 10:16

Wow! Love this

SheeshKebab · 14/05/2019 10:17

Ahhh this is so exciting! My fiance asked me before we boarded our flight to Thailand if the airport scanners go off for jewellery. He never wears it and wouldn't think to ask about mine. I still didn't even twig what he was gonna do ❤️💍

DoubleTroubleRainbows · 14/05/2019 10:18

it's an unbranded box but it's got a postal label on it with "antique diamond ring" and some value details on it

This seems odd, that a parcel would state the contents and value on the outside? Upping the odds of the parcel disappearing in the post.

MissingInActionYouSay · 14/05/2019 10:20

Shamelessly placemarking. So excited for you! My husband proposed to me when I was in the bath. Not at all romantic, he burst into the bathroom dying for a wee while our preschooler was on the loo downstairs and was mid stream when he said " I suppose this is it, we do everything together now. Better get married ey, bitch queen?". I replied. "ok. but you are never ever allowed to shit in here while im the bath. Now get out". The ROMANCE....to be fair though I still love him but we did move to a house with separate loo and bathroom!

Pythonesque · 14/05/2019 10:21

That sounds like a customs label, standard if it has come from overseas. Or potentially also for postal insurance as well.

Mummab1991 · 14/05/2019 10:23

Aww how lovely!! X

Travis1 · 14/05/2019 10:24

Oh bless! How exciting for you

FunnyHappyGirl · 14/05/2019 10:27

I'm glad I'm not the only one to not let on that I knew! My DP (or should I say DF!) is not as subtle as he'd like to think so I'd cottoned on to the fact that he was planning on proposing. He dragged it out a good few months (!) but in the end I knew when he was going to do it. I even found the bag the ring was in and took a sneaky peek at the paperwork and looked the ring up online (somehow didn't feel right looking at the actual ring) as I wanted to be able to prepare myself for possibly not liking it!

Turns out he had actually been listening to me when we'd talked about it in the past, so I was very happy with his choice. And it fitted!

I've not let on that I knew about it in advance and in fact you are the first people I've "told"! It's a "secret" I'll probably take to the grave as it would spoil it for him if he knew.

Please come back OP and tell us how he does it in the end!

Heathcliff27 · 14/05/2019 10:30

Oooh exciting, placemat

FunnyHappyGirl · 14/05/2019 10:30

Oh, and yes, I had the opportunity to do my nails beforehand! He even commented that I don't do them very often! He didn't realise why! Bless him.

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