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Anon. members - Forums open to court action??

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justasking111 · 10/04/2019 13:47

Was quite shocked to see this. Will this be a test case? Mumsnet is such a tame well run site compared to the comments I see in the online press. Is the writing on the wall for free (cough) speech or is it a culling of trolling. Personally I think that something needs to be done, some folk have no filter or are just plain nasty.

news.yahoo.com/transgender-activist-wins-court-ruling-forcing-parenting-website-reveal-identity-alleged-online-abuser-121317596.html

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LimeKiwi · 15/04/2019 13:16

Yes I'm sure the lurkers are hanging on your every word. You have such great arguments

Not sure if you missed where I said you're not interested in any other opinion, just women =biology only. You said as much upthread.
As I said, you know where you're comfortable. I accept transwomen.

BarbieJellyBabyBrain · 15/04/2019 13:17

I accept transwomen.

What's a 'transwoman'?

LimeKiwi · 15/04/2019 13:18

Nothing I say is going to be the "right" answer for you.
If you don't then fair enough.

LimeKiwi · 15/04/2019 13:19

Maybe someone else will get suckered into answering

SmileEachDay · 15/04/2019 13:19

Nothing I say is going to be the "right" answer for you

I’ve said about 3 times that I’m listening and want to hear your definition.

IrmaFayLear · 15/04/2019 13:20

Heavens. This heralds the death of the "comments" sections in newspapers and online forums.

As can be seen on MN, it seems anyone can trip up and cause offence, even if they really don't intend to. I have seen people taken to task for using an outdated term for SN, even if the new term is extremely recent and has not yet filtered down to the general population.

Of course it is unacceptable to threaten, or doxx (is that the term for revealing personal information?!) or abuse another poster or member of the public, but it seems that any heated (or even bland) discussion could cause someone to blow the whistle. There is a poster I've seen on here who shouts "racism" and "reported" about everything . It's tiresome because it derails interesting discussions on a topic that's not about that. The poster just seems to comb through threads picking on people.

LimeKiwi · 15/04/2019 13:21

Fair enough SmileEachDay, maybe you genuinely do want to know but there's 2 on this thread at least who definitely don't.

S1naidSucks · 15/04/2019 13:21

Nothing I say is going to be the "right" answer for you.

It absolutely CAB be the right answer. I’m sure you can easily explain how science shows that men can become women. There bound to be loads of scientific proof.

BarbieJellyBabyBrain · 15/04/2019 13:22

Nothing I say is going to be the "right" answer for you.

I don't care if its the 'right' answer or not. I just want an answer to any of the questions that have been posed to you on this thread! Please?!

LimeKiwi · 15/04/2019 13:23

So you have the chance to do a completely Confused comment and cry laughter emoticon again?

BarbieJellyBabyBrain · 15/04/2019 13:24

Imagine how our country would work if MPs refused to answer questions in Parliament because they knew it wouldn't be the 'right' answer (ie. Someone would come back and counter argue their point).

SmileEachDay · 15/04/2019 13:24

Fair enough SmileEachDay, maybe you genuinely do want to know but there's 2 on this thread at least who definitely don't

So could you tell me, please? I am genuinely interested in anything that moves this whole debate forwards.

sackrifice · 15/04/2019 13:25

I accept transwomen.

You said earlier 'not Karen White' so you don't 'accept' trans women.

sackrifice · 15/04/2019 13:26

Fair enough SmileEachDay, maybe you genuinely do want to know but there's 2 on this thread at least who definitely don't.

I do. I've been asking on and off here for years. Do you think I'd still be asking if I didn't want to know?

BarbieJellyBabyBrain · 15/04/2019 13:26

So you have the chance to do a completely confused comment and cry laughter emoticon again?

OK, I pinky promise I won't use the crying with laughter emoji.

What I can't promise is that I will roll over and say 'ah yes, you are absolutely right, I am not going to say anything to counter your argument'.

LimeKiwi · 15/04/2019 13:27

So could you tell me, please? I am genuinely interested in anything that moves this whole debate forwardsa

What is the point in defining woman or transwoman when the only acceptable answer is woman = biology?
As soon as I did, the ridicule and that's not a woman starts up. Maybe not from you but still would from others.

BarbieJellyBabyBrain · 15/04/2019 13:28

Another question:

How is Karen White not a transwoman, but, say, Lily Madigan is a transwoman?

sackrifice · 15/04/2019 13:30

As soon as I did, the ridicule and that's not a woman starts up

Did you say something like 'a woman is someone who thinks they are a woman'? In which case, if Karen White says he is, then you have to accept it. Plus - that would be circular [mentioning the thing that is being defined in the definition itself] which as we know, isn't an actual definition.

LimeKiwi · 15/04/2019 13:30

No sackrifice, I agreed with @SleepingSloth saying scum can identify as scum

SmileEachDay · 15/04/2019 13:30

What is the point in defining woman or transwoman when the only acceptable answer is woman = biology?
As soon as I did, the ridicule and that's not a woman starts up. Maybe not from you but still would from others

So tell me and ignore any ridicule.

LimeKiwi · 15/04/2019 13:33

Because you're in a secret place on the internet that no-one else can see? Confused

sackrifice · 15/04/2019 13:34

No sackrifice, I agreed with @SleepingSloth saying scum can identify as scum

Karen White is still a human, whatever crimes he committed. Scum or not, your belief is that TWAW, and if they say it, then you accept it. You are unwilling to say why. If you had to categorize this person into male or female, which category are you placing them? And on what grounds?

SmileEachDay · 15/04/2019 13:35

Lime

No. But you keep saying the reason you won’t say is because no one really wants to listen and people take the piss.

I want to listen.
I won’t take the piss.
I want to move the debate forward.

sackrifice · 15/04/2019 13:36

So tell me and ignore any ridicule.

Perhaps Lime can whisper it in your ear [AKA send you a message explaining it]?

BarbieJellyBabyBrain · 15/04/2019 13:38

Ah yes, good idea, they could PM you the explanation.

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