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To think a love spell could work?

362 replies

BetterToHaveLovedAndLost · 03/04/2019 20:48

Has anyone ever done a love spell and been successful? If so, what did the spell involve? Thanks.

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GuineaPiglet345 · 03/04/2019 22:03

I know a love spell OP, just send me a postal order for £50 and I’ll get right on it....

IWouldBeSuperb · 03/04/2019 22:04

She can't start filling her pockets with chunks of rose quartz -

Then her coat will have 'sharp bits'

It'll get far too confusing Hmm

mimibunz · 03/04/2019 22:04

Is he the one on MN that answers DIY questions?

BetterToHaveLovedAndLost · 03/04/2019 22:05

I doubt it. He’s not the DIY type.

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Greenlegobox · 03/04/2019 22:05

If he responds favourably to her sharp bits at least she'll know she's onto a non-starter.

Letterkennie · 03/04/2019 22:05

And also, you must read “Creative Visualisation” by Shakti Gawain.

But be very clear and careful what you wish for.

Thunderspuds · 03/04/2019 22:06

It was me! Alas it was not my penis. It was the black tourmaline crystal I carry around with me on public transport.

ReapersHowler · 03/04/2019 22:06

OP I am pagan I have performed a love spell before to bring into my life, which was highly successful but I don't think you need Magick, I think you need to find something else in your life because you're worth more than chasing after a man who doesn't want you.

Value yourself more, be proud of who you are and have self confidence. The right person will come when you value yourself.

BetterToHaveLovedAndLost · 03/04/2019 22:07

Letterkennie is that a serious suggestion? I will check it out. Has it worked for you? Is it a positive affirmations type of thing?

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BetterToHaveLovedAndLost · 03/04/2019 22:09

Did you focus on a particular person ReapersHowler or love in general?

I think you make a good point but it’s difficult to turn off my feelings.

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Pumperthepumper · 03/04/2019 22:10

Play on his curiosity! Invite him to a bus-spotters convention but dont tell him what time it starts! That should pique his curiosity AND keep him skittish Star

ChicCroissant · 03/04/2019 22:11

Are you the OP who is convinced that her colleague is madly in love with her?

If he was interested, he'd ask you out - not decline an offer.

ReapersHowler · 03/04/2019 22:12

It was just a general love spell to bring some love into my life whoever or whatever it might have brought. It did fortunately bring me my husband who I have been with now for 18 years and we have 2 children.

You can't bend peoples free will and you can't create feelings where there aren't any. I know you can't turn off your feelings but maybe just let him be for a while stop chasing and just concentrate on loving yourself.

user1473878824 · 03/04/2019 22:13

OP, piss taking aside, it’s love in general. Even with magic you can’t make someone love you. You can just change how you are and how you receive things. Nothing will make someone who doesn’t love you, love you. Being a happier-in-yourself, open person will open you up to ^someone* loving you though.

BetterToHaveLovedAndLost · 03/04/2019 22:13

ChicCroissant, we’re not colleagues alas. I wish I was convinced he’s madly in love with me. That’s what the spell is for!

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user1473878824 · 03/04/2019 22:14

Well that was a load of italics gone wrong.

user1473878824 · 03/04/2019 22:15

Why this guy OP? If you think you have chemistry why do you think he doesn’t want to go for a drink? You haven’t elaborated on the obsticals - is it someone else??

ShowMeTheKittens · 03/04/2019 22:16

Yes he’s interested in real life but there are obstacles.
WIFE

StressToy · 03/04/2019 22:17

Here’s a wild idea. Fall for someone who wants to go for a drink with you. It’s a 97% better idea.

Greenlegobox · 03/04/2019 22:19

Wife or gay.
Or worse, gay and married. No coming back from that.

BetterToHaveLovedAndLost · 03/04/2019 22:20

Why this guy? He fills my heart with joy, he’s imperfect perfection, he’s sexy, funny, clever, he gives me butterflies, I feel aroused just standing next to him, he’s kind to me, we have a lovely rapport. I feel like my whole life was leading up to the moment I met him. He’s raw, manly. I love his smell. I love his flaws.

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OhWhatFuckeryIsThisNow · 03/04/2019 22:21

Rose quartz you say? How should I use it? you get a big enough piece and clonk him over the noggin.

MadameAnchou · 03/04/2019 22:21

I've always found a good blow job can really work magic myself, but of course, he has to unbutton his trousers first.

ReapersHowler · 03/04/2019 22:21

Then surely it's better to have him willingly in your life as a friend then unwillingly as a lover? Feelings can grow but I really do think you need to concentrate on yourself.

smallereveryday · 03/04/2019 22:22

Ummm let me think a moment..

No, pretty sure it won't work because of the small matter that spells aren't actual real things.. kinda makes the whole premiss a bit loony and non starter.