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Size 16 and 16.7 stone??

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Xxellzxx · 18/03/2019 15:27

Hello all, I’ve been trying to lose weight and I was talking to my friends who are about size 12-14 and they weigh between 10 stone and 12 stone and they were shocked when I told them I was over 16 stone. I am 5”6 and wear 36C/38C bra and size 16 in top and bottoms. Is this normal and is there anyone else like this?

OP posts:
ToffeePennie · 18/03/2019 17:33

I’m a size 18-20. I weigh 17stone 4pounds and I’m 5ft 4.
I also don’t give a flying fuck what people think about me!
If they love you, they’ll be there for you regardless

ToffeePennie · 18/03/2019 17:34

Oh yeah and I have a 34 K bra Size.

KnitFastDieWarm · 18/03/2019 17:36

Yep! Everyone carries weight differently. I’m about that weight (I think), 5’5 and a size 16 in dresses (a good, vintage pencil dress size 16, not a baggy size 16). I own trousers between 16 to 20 depending on the fit I’m going for and the brand because ALL my weight is in my hips and thighs. At every size, i struggle to fine trousers that fit my waist, which is 11 inches smaller than my hips.
No one ever believes I weigh what I do, I’m like a neutron star Grin even at my absolute super fit, 20 year old, size 8-10 thinnest, I weighed about 10.5 stone.

Chocolatecoffeeaddict · 18/03/2019 17:36

I was the same before I lost a bit of weight. I'm a size 10 at 11 stone and at 15 stone I'm a size 14-16. Most people when I told them my weight were surprised and guessed me around the 12 to 13 stone mark.

ooItsAoBeautifulDayNow · 18/03/2019 17:40

This is all so confusing! I couldn't get on a pair of size 10 jeans today, not even past my arse let alone doing up.

I'm 5'7" and 10 stone.

Previously anorexic, seven stone and a size 6 - I'm enjoying having boobs and a bum now but really struggling with having to learn how to dress to flatter them.

Also learning sometimes you really do have to undo the top of your trousers after a big bowl of pasta. Worth it :)

KnitFastDieWarm · 18/03/2019 17:41

I’m of the @ToffeePennie school of thought on this subject Grin I look and feel good, I exercise and eat well, I don’t weight myself and I buy clothes that fit me regardless of what’s on the label. Life’s too short to do otherwise.

BlackPrism · 18/03/2019 17:42

Clothes sizes are weird

Hopelesscase28 · 18/03/2019 17:44

I’m 5’5 and 7st 12 and a size 8-10. Sometimes a 6 in places like next.
When I weighed 10st I was more like a size 12-14. If I weighed 16st I would easily be in size 20 and above.

I still don’t fit in size 8 in places like new look or top shop for trousers though. Only in tops or skirts. Fat bottom and legs still. And I still look bigger than a lot of my friends who say they weigh more than me, ergo weight doesn’t really tell you that much. My bmi is verging on underweight but I still couldn’t get into size 8 jeans in top shop - well I presume not. I haven’t tried! Definitely couldn’t get into a size 6.

3out · 18/03/2019 17:45

When I was a size ten I weighed ten stone (5’6). Think I’m about 11 1/2 stone now and a size 14. People are different.

madcatladyforever · 18/03/2019 17:46

I'm surprised too, I'm 5.4 and a size 18 at 13 stone.

SosigisAndCornflourSauce · 18/03/2019 18:14

Where do you buy these clothes, I want some .. I'm the same weight but 5'8" and a size 20 (occasionally and 18)

I do have a pair of size 12 leggings though - maybe I should claim that as my true dress size!

thecatsthecats · 18/03/2019 18:16

I thought big boned referred to your frame rather than them being long or heavy?

My wrists, width of shoulders and hips, elbows etc all measure large without being fat bearing, and my hand span is about 9".

Tomtontom · 18/03/2019 18:17

People can be any size they want to be if they choose where they shop carefully!

It's a dangerous game though, I was 17 stone but convinced myself I was a size 18 because that's what the labels said. I ignored the fact that 70% of size 18s didn't fit me.

Girlicorne · 18/03/2019 18:20

I m the same bra and clothes size as you OP, reckon I weigh about 16 stone ish but I m a bit taller (5'9/10) I think everyone carries weight differently!

Discoshoes · 18/03/2019 18:20

I'm 4ft 11.5inches.
I weigh 10 stone 4lbs and wear a size 10.
People are shocked when they hear my weight.
I'm obese according to my practice nurse.

MadameJosephine · 18/03/2019 18:22

It varies so much depending on body shape and composition

I’m 5’3”, 14 stone and mostly wear a 16 with the occasional 18 bottom depending on the cut (fat arse)

Geekster1963 · 18/03/2019 19:18

I'm 4ft 11 too and a size 10 discoshoes and I weigh 7st 4lb. This just goes to show how we can be different weights but the same size.

hannah9176 · 18/03/2019 19:23

5ft4, 11 stone, size 10, 34B. Classed as obese and have been told by nurse to do something about my weight 🙄! Carry all my weight in my legs though, can't fit my calves in the majority of boots but have a v slim top half/flat stomach. We're all built v different 🤷🏼‍♀️

Slippiepippie · 18/03/2019 19:26

I was 15 stone and in a size 16. To me i looked way smaller than 15 stone

YesQueen · 18/03/2019 19:30

5ft 10
16 stone something
Size 14-16 bottom and 16 top. Huge boobs (34JJ/K) and small waist

NiteFlights · 18/03/2019 19:32

Sizes are crazy! I’m an 8 - 14 depending on brand & how I want the item to fit.
I have a vintage M&S jacket in size 12 that fits perfectly.
I’m 5’2 and about 9.5 stone, bra 30DD.
When I weighed a stone less, it was hard to find tops small enough in some shops, and yet I was by no means skinny and my BMI was in the middle of the healthy range.

YesQueen · 18/03/2019 19:32

I am broad though. Imagine a power lifter or someone hulking sacks of potatoes about. Wide shoulders and big hands/feet. I wanted to be petite HmmGrin

Horsemenoftheaclopalypse · 18/03/2019 19:36

You can carry weight as differently as you like but unless you are 5”10 / 6 foot you aren’t a size 16 at 16 stone

*OP what are your bust hip and waist measurements?”

MargotLovedTom1 · 18/03/2019 19:38

I'm also 5'6" and a size 16, but I "only" weigh 13 st, and have substantial 36g boobs. I don't know where you're carrying your weight OP!

MotherToMany · 18/03/2019 19:47

I'm 5 ft 8.

I was 18 stone 2lb last summer, size 18-20 in non fitted stretch fabric! 38C bra.

Now 14 stone and a size 16 in fitted clothes. Can get away with a 14 in stretchy material. 36B bra.

People have always underestimated my weight and clothes size. I put it down to dense bones and a lot of muscleWink.

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